Mel's Musings

New Beginning.

2010-01-03T11:50:00.001-06:00

Um, I may or may not have started a new blog.

It is time to say goodbye to Mel's Musings.

The Year in Review 2009

2009-12-28T17:05:00.003-06:00

The Year in Review: 2009

It’s back for another year!

1. What did you do in 2009 that you'd never done before?

Well, the biggest and most important thing was… I got MARRIED! I also stayed at a Bed and Breakfast, hosted my family and in-laws for Christmas Eve, became an aunt, went to Boston, took a water taxi to the airport, became a designer purse lover, joined the Lutheran church, became the proud owner of a Wii and a DVR.

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions and will you make more for next year?

My goals for last year were to get married, stay sane, and focus on the positive each day… I think I did pretty well. There are definitely new goals for 2010!

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

Brooke gave birth to beautiful Allison Marie!

And Jenny gave birth to Tori Eleanor, making Tim and I an Uncle and Aunt.

4. Did anyone close to you die?

We lost both of my grandmothers this past June.

5. What states/countries did you visit?

Illinois and Massachusetts this year.

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?

Increased patience and a stronger faith

7. What date from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

July 25- our wedding day!

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Getting Married! Really, nothing else compares to that!

9. What was your biggest regret of the year?

Not making time for the things and people I should.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

I had the BFF (Black Friday Flu- as Tim likes to call it), but that is about it.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

Besides the many things for our wedding, my first Vera Bradley purse is a favorite as well as our Wii!!!

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

Tim for putting up with me and being a wonderful husband!

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

Someone who shall not be named here.

14. Where did most of your money go?

Wedding and bills and savings.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

Our wedding day. Our honeymoon in Door County. Baseball season, new babies. The Wii. Our DVR. Spending time with TIM!

16. What song will always remind you of 2007?

“Tonight’s Going to Be a Good Night” “ Love Story”

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

i. happier or sadder? Happier!

ii. thinner or fatter? thinner

iii. richer or poorer? Richer

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?

Spending time with those I love, working on the house, not worrying!

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?

Worrying, working.

20. How will you be spending Christmas?

We hosted our families for Christmas Eve, and it was wonderful! Christmas Day we visited Aunt Kathy, Auntie Chris and Tim’s Parents. It was pretty near perfect overall!

22. Did you fall in love in 2009?

Yeah, there may or may not be this love of my life named Timothy Robert Reed.

23. How many one-night stands?

It doesn’t count as a one night stand when you are married!

24. What was your favorite TV program?

Grey’s Anatomy, Biggest Loser, Supernanny, Clean House

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?

No real hate here… just general annoyance

26. What was the best book you read?

I LOVED “A Thousand Splendid Suns” and “My Sister’s Keeper”

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?

Pandora. I had never used it before, and LOVE to have it on hand when I am home!

28. What did you want and get?

A wonderful wedding and honeymoon. A Vera Bradley purse. A Ryan Braun Jersey!

29. What was your favorite film of this year?

Harry Potter! It was soooo good!

30. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I turned 31. I worked. The day before we had my amazing bridal shower! Best gift- Ryan Braun Tote Bag! (Thanks, Tim!)

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Having some people here who are not with us any more. Not much else (other than maybe a bun in the oven)

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009?

Practical, Old Navy with a touch of Vera.

33. What kept you sane?

Tim. My bffers.

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

I love Ryan Braun. I love John Cusack. I love Patrick Dempsey. Enough said.

35. What political issue stirred you the most?

The war in Iraq and Afghanistan. Got most excited about The Inaugaration!

36. Who did you miss?

Dean.

Scooter.

My grandmothers.

37. Who was the best new person you met?

Getting closer with the people I work with at BBW and AAL has been great!

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2009:

Love is unconditional. Things will not be perfect. People will not be perfect. But, we will love deeply and passionately and completely, just the same.

39. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:

We've only just begun to live,

White lace and promises

A kiss for luck and we're on our way.

And yes, We've just begun.

Before the rising sun we fly,

So many roads to choose

We start our walking and learn to run.

And yes, We've just begun.

Sharing horizons that are new to us,

Watching the signs along the way,

Talking it over just the two of us,

Working together day to day

Together.

And when the evening comes we smile,

So much of life ahead

We'll find a place where there's room to grow,

And yes, We've just begun.

Mrs. Reed

2009-08-01T14:46:00.002-05:00

It's official.

I am Mrs. Melissa Marie Reed.

Tim and I got married last weekend, and it was the happiest day of my life. (I hope Tim would say the same thing!) It was in the 70s, the sun was shining and a few clouds... perfect weather. The service was great- a packed church, tearful minister, and the love of my life.

We got to take pictures on the same pier where we got engaged, and at our favorite park. And then let loose at the most fun reception ever! We had amazing food, great music, and lots of laughter! Our photo booth was a HUGE hit, and the book is a fantastic memory of our big day.

Friends and family came from California- Colorado, Arizona, Green Bay, Idaho, ALL over. It was great!

We had a lovely gift opening as a barbecue at our house. It was nice to have everyone over and the cool gifts we got!

I never thought that being married would be all that different, but it is. I have never felt such immeasurable joy and happiness. I love being Mrs. Reed. This past week has been full of setting up our house- putting away new dishes and pots and pans, and setting up our new bedding, all while being Tim's wife.

Friday, I officially changed my name at Social Security, and have never been prouder to be...

Mrs. Melissa Marie Reed.

Where has time gone?

2009-07-16T09:32:00.003-05:00

Where has this summer gone?

The end of the school year was incredibly hectic.

Then we said goodbye to both of my grandmothers.

Tim had a groom's shower at school which was lovely.

We welcomed Michelle into the family.

We cut down some trees, went to the Dells, celebrated our bachelor/ette parties, and are in final preparation mode for the wedding.

The wedding.

Is 10 days away.

I. AM. GETTING. MARRIED!

What?

There are a bunch of little things left to do, but mostly it is all good and I'm sure things will work out just fine. I mean, if we end up married at the end of the day, it was a success, right?

I cannot wait to be Mrs. Reed. I never knew it was possible to love someone as much as I love Tim.

He is able to laugh and joke around with me, and he does nice things for me, and he understands, and forgives, and accepts me for who I am. My heart swells each time I think of him.

I am incredibly blessed.

I'm baaaack...

2009-05-31T09:04:00.002-05:00

Okay, blogosphere, it has been a really long time. May has been one crazy month! Since the last post, chapter 1 of the thesis was completed, we went to A LOT Of Brewers games, wedding invitations were made and mailed out, yard work has commenced, changes at school have happened, a tree fell on me, and I got the best birthday present ever.

Don't worry, I won't bore you with a play by play of the last month. But, I will tell you about yesterday, it was a good (and crazy) day!

Yesterday was a beautiful day weather wise. Gorgeous sun, perfect temps... perfect. I went to see M. play in his soccer game. It was so great to see him out there playing well, and interacting with all the other kids and such. He was very excited I was there! I'm so glad I went. After soccer, I came home and Tim and I were working on cleaning the house. Until our neighbor showed up at our door with a "Yoohoo!" Which led to her deciding that today was the day we were going to cut down the beastly overgrown juniper tree by the garage.

Tim and I were outside for an hour with our neighbor, snipping and sawing away at this very large tree. I was sawing off a major trunk that supported the top 1/3 of the tree. Tim and the neighbor lady, and I were pulling it down, and when it fell, it pinned me under it against the fence. It was crazy. I couldn't get up at all from under the prickly brush. After the world turned gray, and I thought I was going to pass out, I was freed from the brush, with some minor scratches, loss of breath, and only one twig poking me in my eye. It was nuts! Tim was great about making sure I was okay. Thankfully, Neighbor Bruce came by and helped us chop down the rest of the tree. So two hours later it was done... now we just have a big mess to clean up. And, our lovely neighbor lady has said she has a question for us once we get all the trees cut down (there are a few more beasts on the property). Who knows what she wants? Honestly, I'm scared!

After recovering from the tree incident, we relaxed a smidge and then went to church. Afterwards, we went to DeMarini's for pizza with Tim's parents and Aunt. It was delicious, even if Nancy spilled her ice water all over me, and I got pizza sauce on my shirt! We stopped at Leon's for custard, and while I was enjoying my strawberry yumminess, Tim gave me my birthday present.

It was the best birthday present EVER!!!!

I got a Milwaukee Brewers Pilsner glass. AND a RYAN BRAUN TOTE BAG! It looks like the white pinstiped uniform tops. It is AMAZING! And wonderful. When I had to work last weekend, Tim went off to Miller Park to pick up some lovely Brewers items for me. He did a great job!!!!

Today is the day of my bridal shower. I am super excited to see everyone who is able to come. I am also a bit nervous as well. (I don't know why!) But, I'm sure it will be great with Katy and Brooke in charge.

Alright, off to get a few things done before the shower! I promise I won't be a such a stranger! :)

2009-04-27T19:12:00.001-05:00

Just another manic monday...

okay so not quite, I really just wanted to update the blog for Tim, since he KEEPS ASKING! :) (love you honey!)

Time to Remember

2009-04-13T23:49:00.003-05:00

One year ago we lost Dean.

Tomorrow will be a trip up to visit him and honor him.

I miss him so much. Each and Every Day.

Attention!

2009-04-06T21:22:00.000-05:00

The Brewers' Home Opener is in 4 days!

HOORAY!

That is all.

Are You Listening?

2009-04-02T20:22:00.002-05:00

Today is World Autism Awareness Day.

1:150 children are diagnosed with Autism. This is a staggering number.

Today I am proud to be an Alpha Xi Delta. My heart is bursting with hope as My Fraternity has announced it's partnership with Autism Speaks. My sisters and their energy, love and dedication will be able to contribute support, funding, and hope for this cause.

I know that we can make a difference.

Where does time go?

2009-03-22T20:31:00.002-05:00

I cannot believe it has been a month since I last posted. Life has just gotten in the way I guess!

Today was a great day. We were up early, and I finally got the painting done in the attic, and most of my clothes put away up there. This is highly exciting. I cannot wait to get my desk to the house, and to put my touches on that room. Then we just need to hang some blinds, and fix the door and closet doors and it will be ALL Finished! (We have yet to have a room that is COMPLETELY complete in the house. This drives me crazy!)

We did get our drapes and blinds hung in the living room, so it actually looks like a living room. I love it! We even ordered rugs that will be here in a few weeks. They match our curtains wonderfully- at least in the catalog.. so I hope so in person, too!

Wedding plans are coming along nicely... crazy it is only 4 months away!!! I am so freakin' excited!

I am slowly making progress on my research for my thesis. I need to crank out some serious work before the end of the semester, but hopefully with good planning I can make some work time for that!

School is going well. I love my job, even if it is VERY challenging. There are definitely ups and downs, but I am so thankful to be there, and to be able to make a difference while I am there.

Things with Tim keep getting better and better. We passed our marriage seminar, and I feel have just kept getting closer and closer. Communicating about things and enjoying time together. I love him so much and cannot wait to be his wife.

So, that is a mini update on my life. It is good. Opening day is 3 weeks away, and Spring is here.

Hooray!

Stop this ride... I want to get off.

2009-02-18T21:39:00.002-06:00

Okay, so not really, but gosh are things crazy crazy crazy busy!

I spent last weekend in Boston with 5 other lovely ladies from school. It was a bit cold, but a great weekend in a different city, learning cool stuff, and eating yummy food. I definitely learned a ton about IB, and am now puzzling about how to make a good special ed IB model since there IS NOT one! I also fell in love with Boston and want to go back and explore MORE! Although I felt like I was missing out on so much being gone, it was nice not working on anything while I was away, and just taking a break. I left my laptop at home for Tim, and enjoyed a wire-less- weekend!

Speaking of Tim and laptops, he finally bought one of his own! hurray! However, we are officially a 3 computer 2 person house. Crazy. Additionally, we FINALLY got Time Warner back here to fix our Wireless Network, and now all three computers are happily, and legally, wirelessly connected!

School is interesting... the kids have had lots going on, the staff has lots going on, but overall things are going okay. It is official however that we can NOT share a room next year. It is WAY too over stimulating for EVERYONE!

I am beginning work on my thesis, and this is freaking me out. But, I am excited to accomplish such a feat, and get my master's, and get the cool hood thingy, and move all the way over on the pay scale thanks to all of my credits.

Lastly, the house progress has slowed to a crawl. I still need to move out of the apartment completely, then there is finding room for everything, weeding out things, and making things OURS, not his and mine. Hopefully, we can get back to progress soon!

Life is good. Busy but good. Just how I like it!

6 months...

2009-01-26T18:12:00.003-06:00

There are only 6 months until the wedding. This freaks me out. There is a lot to do, and I have lots going on. I'm thinking that some major listmaking/ timelining/ budgeting will be taking place soon.

Last week I started my research core to complete my thesis and thus my master's degree. I must say I am VERY excited about this crazy endeavor. 1) It will be a great accomplishment. 2) I will have a published book in the Carroll library. 3) I will move ALL THE WAY across the pay scale thanks to all of my credits, and add on an additional license. This is highly exciting- and very scary!

A summary of the past month...

Life is good, but very busy. The house still needs lots of work- but hopefully once I move in I can help more. I can make a mean batch of homemade mac and cheese. Nintendo is the best timewaster ever! (Tim and I have been playing a lot of old school Nintendo) Unexpected 5 day weekends are wonderful, even if it is wicked cold. Nights with my girls are a godsend. I love being a sorority girl.

I now must go and pack... hopefully I can be moved into the house soon. I need to be there like yesterday.

Thanks to everyone reading the other blog. I'm glad people are reading and commenting and creating their own. It is awesome!

How Quickly Things Are Changing!

2009-01-04T20:41:00.002-06:00

It is crazy to me how quick time is flying by and how quickly things are changing!

Just over a year ago, I had just met Tim, and was not sure what that would lead to.

Now, with only 201 days until the wedding, it is crazy that we have a house, a fun filled sassy relationship where we talk about stuff and laugh a bit too much, amazing families and wonderful friends.

I am so excited to celebrate with EVERYONE this summer at our wedding. It is going to be a true celebration of our love for each other, our families and our friends!

***

Alas, I must also say that my time in Apt 212 is coming to an end... this freaks me out in so many ways! I am so excited to live with Tim in OUR house and have my things in one spot and not be shlepping back and forth all the time. I am also sad to leave 212 as it has MANY memories- we love hotel 212... the laughter, the tears, the good times!

I think though, that leaving here might help me with the whole moving forward business I haven't been doing so well with... we'll see.

Alright, tomorrow is back to the grind, hopefully I can sleep tonight!

2009- The year everything will be FINE :)

2009-01-01T19:41:00.003-06:00

Hooray! The New Year is FINALLY here!

I'm so blessed to have had a year full of craziness that was supported by my amazing friends, family, and fiance.

Here are some goals for 2009:

1) Get married.

2) Attempt to remain sane.

3) Focus on the positive each day.

Since last year was such a freakin' roller coaster, I have decided to focus on the blessings of each and every day. You can follow this fun journey at my new blog: The Best Thing About Today. The idea is I will post every day about something good that happened that day. Readers are welcome to comment, add their own 'best thing' or just read the happy thoughts :)

***

Last night, Tim and I rang in the new year at Alex and Jenny's. It was a lovely night with friends, and plenty of good food and drinks! The best part was having someone to kiss at midnight, and realizing that I was going to be his bride in just 7 months!

So far, this year is off to a fine start... let's hope it continues!

Happy 2009!

As the Year Turns

2008-12-31T08:50:00.002-06:00

Today is the last day of 2008, and I couldn't be more thankful for that. This has been one heck of a rollercoaster of a year. I'm really hoping that everything will be fine in 2009!

Sadly, it is Wednesday already, which means that there are only 4 days after today of Winter Break. This makes me very sad. I feel like we have been out of school forever!

I also came to the realization that I have not slept at my apartment in over a week. I really just need to pack up and move to the house. Like NOW. Like YESTERDAY!

I wish I could find a magic roommate to take over my lease, then that would be perfect.

Alas, it is time for the activities of today to get started.

Happy New Year, one and all! May 2009 be fine for everyone! :)

2008-12-27T16:38:00.001-06:00

The Year in Review: 2008

It’s back for another year!

1. What did you do in 2008 that you'd never done before?

This year was quite the roller coaster! I fell in love, got engaged, buried one of my best friends, totaled my car so the air bags exploded, went to a MLB Playoff game, Packers game and Badgers game, bought a house, used a crowbar, and saw Rascal Flatts in concert!

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions and will you make more for next year?

They stunk this year… but this year was crazy! There will definitely be resolutions in 2009!

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

The Kupfer family welcomed Isaac David this past spring! J

4. Did anyone close to you die?

My Uncle Gary passed away in February.

And, we lost Dean. LCpl Dean D Opicka was killed in action on April 14, 2008.

5. What states/countries did you visit?

Illinois, Missouri and Michigan

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?

This year was such a roller coaster… I just want everything to be fine in 2009 (not great, just fine J )

7. What date from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

April 14, 2008 was the day Dean was taken from us.

May 3, 2008 was the day Tim asked me to marry him!

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

Finding the man of my dreams J Finding a great job, and not going crazy after everything that happened this year!

9. What was your biggest regret of the year?

Not being in more contact with Dean while he was in Iraq.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

I had strep, some nasty colds, crashed my car for some great seatbelt bruises, skinned my kneed pretty bad in Tosa, and sprained my wrist at BBW.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

My wedding dress!

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

Tim for not only proposing to me, but putting up with me! Scooter for getting through some tough stuff. And of course, Katy B for being the strongest person I know!

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

My former boss. Ugh.

14. Where did most of your money go?

Bills and wedding.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

The HOUSE!, our wedding, NKOTB!, The Brewers in the playoffs!

16. What song will always remind you of 2007?

“No One” Alicia Keys; “I kissed a girl”- katy perry; “International Harvester”

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

i. happier or sadder? Happier!

ii. thinner or fatter? thinner

iii. richer or poorer? same

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?

Being in touch with friends, and spending time with Tim

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?

Working, stressing out, and getting stuck.

20. How will you be spending Christmas?

Christmas Eve was at my parents with Tim, Day Tim and I went to his aunt’s then to his parents’. It was wonderful!

22. Did you fall in love in 2008?

Yeah, there may or may not be this love of my life named Timothy Robert Reed.

23. How many one-night stands?

None! (well, except for a certain left fielder after that one baseball game, and that one group of hot men from boston after their concert… J )

24. What was your favorite TV program?

Grey’s Anatomy, Whose Wedding is it Anyway?, Clean House, Suze Orman

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?

There is one person whom I pretty much cannot stand.

26. What was the best book you read?

Sadly, I didn’t do much reading this year… L

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?

NKOTB all over again!

28. What did you want and get?

NKOTB tickets, and a future plan I cannot even believe is happening to me!

29. What was your favorite film of this year?

The Bucket List was incredibly good.

30. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I turned 30. J It was celebrated with good friends downtown Milwaukee with a hotel stay thrown in. The best present was not only those in attendance, BUT my RYAN BRAUN autograph! (Thanks Uncle Keith!)

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Not losing Dean.

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?

Practical… my job requires it!

33. What kept you sane?

My girls.

Tim.

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

I love John Cusack. I love Patrick Dempsey. Enough said.

35. What political issue stirred you the most?

The presidential election was SO exciting! Getting to vote was the best feeling ever.

36. Who did you miss?

Dean.

Scooter.

37. Who was the best new person you met?

Probably the staff at my new school, they are fantastic. And getting a lot closer to Darren and Doug has been great too.

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008:

Say what you need to say, when you need to say it. You never know if you will have the chance to say it again.

39. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:

Have no fear for giving in

Have no fear for giving over

You better know that in the end

It’s better to say too much

Than never to say what you need to say again

Even if your hands are shaking

And your faith is broken

Even as the eyes are closing

Do it with a heart wide open

Say what you need to say

Oh, Happy December!

2008-12-01T20:14:00.002-06:00

Hooray, December is here! And in Wisconsin that means SNOW! Which I L O V E. I love snow almost as much as I love Ryan Braun, NKOTB and crow bars combined! Seriously, that is a whole lot. Snow is just great, magical, wintry loveliness. I am so glad I live in a state where we get to have the 100 degree 100% humidity days now and then in the summer, soon followed by gorgeous changing leaves, and then this fluffily (that is right, I said fluffily) white stuff. It is great!

Life continues to be crazy hectic and wonderful and trying all rolled into one. I love it. really!

November was filled with lots of wonderfulness and not so wonderfulness combined.

I tried on MY wedding dress! It is gorgeous. I LOVE IT. Sadly, there was a hole in the train... so really, I am getting a NEW wedding dress- on it's way to me shortly! My lovely attendants have selected their dresses, and they are in. It is official that our 'blue' is "pool" for those of you familiar with David's Bridal land. And the dresses are cute, and will look stunning on my attendants. And they compliment my dress. I can't wait!

Funny story of dress trying on shopping extravaganza- I am SO graceful, that I fell off of the platform and landed on my tush, with my dress all around me in a big pile of tulle and lace and all that is good in wedding dress construction. This was lovely. And so painful that I almost passed out. And yes, my shin still hurts!

School continues to move forward. I feel like I am sort of maybe kind of getting the hang of it. I do love it, and just keep on keeping on to keep getting better at it. I love my students, my school and my coworkers. It is so wonderful to be somewhere I LOVE. Doing what I LOVE to do.

As some of you may now, Tim and I are buying a house. This is the scariest, most exciting, craziest, most thrilling experience ever. The closing is officially this week, but thankfully, we have had access to start work on things. I have fallen in love with the crow bar, and am an expert panel ripper downer. Tim is quite skilled at dismantling drop ceilings. We are so excited to be putting the work and love into this house to make it our own, and enjoy it together.

Sweet house related story- Tim tells me he has a surprise for me on Saturday, but I have to come over to get it. Now, I had just worked 5 hours meeting America's lotion needs, after working at 5 a.m. on Black Friday, and really just wanted to snuggle in and sleep... but the suspense was killing me.

I get to Tim's. He hands me a white envelope with a note that says: "You may not have the key to Ryan Braun's house, but here is the key to mine." And, inside the envelope was my very own key to the new house... and guess what? The very best part is it is a MILWAUKEE BREWERS KEY! Like with the M and everything.... it is so freaking amazing. And a super thoughtful gesture. (You may ooh and ah now.)

November also was accompanied by a nasty case of tonsilitis :::read strep throat, they just didn't even bother with the test so I could save money and get on meds asap::: I was sick for a week! I also got to attend an All Day Krop with Jen. It was great and I got lots done. We also realized that we have NOTHING in scrapbooking supplies compared to these professional kroppers... (Just wait until I get my scrapbook room.... I will have to fill it up :::evil laugh:::)

Scooter was home for Turkey day and we enjoyed a night out... of course, with the girls. It was wonderful as always.

So in short, life is good, things are crazy,

and Christmas is just around the corner!

And the next President of the United States is...

2008-11-04T22:14:00.002-06:00

President Elect Barack Obama!

This is a truly historic day.

I have never been so proud to have voted in an election.

I cannot wait to see what will lie ahead.

May we move forward as a country that continues to grow, work, live and play in the land of the free- as the UNITED States of America.

Hear Ye, Hear Ye, The Polls are Now Open!

2008-11-04T15:33:00.002-06:00

5:02 a.m.- My alarm went off. Today is Election Day! Time to get ready to elect a new President of the United States!

5:15 a.m.- Watched the morning news, and Obama's awesome Virginia Speech, and McCain's final rally in Arizona.

5:45 a.m.- I debated about going to line up to vote, but decided to wait a smidge longer.

6:05 a.m.- I drove past my polling place, the Elks Lodge in Waukesha, and seeing no one in line, went to Starbucks for a Pumpkin Spice Latte. (I didn't want a free coffee, I wanted my PSL!)

6:14 a.m.- I parked my car at the Elks lodge and was person #12 in line! I drank my coffee, and waited.

6:30 a.m.- The line is getting longer, almost 30 people now. Still waiting.

6:40 a.m.- I keep checking the time. Can I vote, yet? The excitement was churning up within! The line is now close to 50 people.

6:54 a.m.- OPEN THE DOORS ALREADY! The line is over 100 people long and growing quickly.

7:00 a.m.- OPEN THE DOORS! I want to VOTE!

7:00:30 a.m.- The poll manager, in his red blazer adorned with pins of the United States Flag unlocked the door, opened it up and called:

"Hear Ye, Hear Ye! The Polls are now OPEN!"

7:00:45 a.m.- I entered the Elks Lodge, wove through the line markers made of Caution tape

7:03 a.m.- I told the nice poll workers my name and address, and received the 6th ballot for my Ward.

7:05 a.m.- I approached the voting booth, anxiously picked up my pencil and VOTED for President of the united states, representatives and a few local offices.

7:06 a.m.- I quickly went over to the ballot machine, inserted my ballot and #7 of the morning! And received my "I Voted" sticker.

7:08 a.m.- I jumped in my car on my way to work, called my dad to report my voter number (because that is just what we do.) And began the anxious waiting that will take place today.

I LOVE election time!

I cannot wait to watch the results pour in!

Happy Election Day, one and all!

2008-11-02T18:40:00.000-06:00

The Greatest Weekend of My Life!

2008-10-05T18:47:00.003-05:00

This was the greatest weekend of my life. Too bad it is about to end.

Friday, I started the weekend by dinner and gaming with Tim. He won $80 on the nickel slots. Good start to a great weekend.

Now Saturday, life gets even better. Besides being able to see the Alpha Xi's at Homecoming, it was FINALLY time to see New Kids on the Block!!!!!

I was 11 the last time I saw them on a cold January day at the Bradley Center with my mom, and a few friends. I swore that Donnie pointed to ME in the crowd! ::swoon:: I left that concert on a high, and with no voice... this time was not that different.

Brooke, Bettina, Jodi, Erin and I ventured to Illinois to see our favorite "grown men" in concert. It was absolutely amazing! First, I have never seen so many pregnant women at a concert in my life! Good thing NKOTB thought ahead to sell "Step by Step" onesies. If there was a child in my near future I would have gotten one. They were super cute! After waiting in line FOREVER, we finally got our NKOTB tshirts!!!! YAY! Then we were off to watch a bit of Natasha Beddingfield and finally... the NEW KIDS!

They were full of such high energy, and did not break a hip while dancing. In case you were wondering, Joey is the youngest at 35, and Jon, Danny and Donnie are all 39. Jordan is 38. So they aren't as old as some of you think. (Aurelia, they are NOT 50!)

We sang and danced and screamed all night long! It was great! Highlights include Jordan dancing with his shirt open, the rotating stage they moved to by the back of the auditorium, and hearing each and every one of our favorite hits (well, everyone but "my popsicle") It was a mix of new and old, and TONS of fun!!!!! I cannot wait for the Milwaukee show in a few weeks!!!!

Today, I had the honor of attending one of the 2008 postseason games for THE Milwaukee Brewers. We lost. :( But, I was 10 rows from Ryan Braun, got my very own RB tshirt and thundersticks, spent quality time with Doug, and enjoyed the Brewers in the playoffs for one day longer than the Cubs! It was such an awesome experience, and I cannot wait for next season's home opening 4/10 versus the CUBS!

Now it is time to return to reality... gotta warm up and do some lesson plans. Life gets back to normal. :)

Time Flies!

2008-09-30T20:11:00.000-05:00

Yet, September has flown by.

In the past month, I have:

* completed the world's largest corn maze. It was amazing and fun, and fantastic! Tim and I had a blast playing in the corn with our Illinois friends. And we found ALL of the checkpoints! Yippee!

* attended my first Packers game at Lambeau Field!!!!! Thanks to Kristi I got to see the Packers play the Cowboys. And although, we didn't win, it was an AWESOME experience!!!!!!!!!!! There is nothing like Lambeau Field... Nothing. We met lots of wealthy Cowboy fans from Texas, and a super fun and cute family sitting in front of us. We got home VERY late, and both skipped work, it was unforgettable!

* cheered the Brewers to the Playoffs at 4 Brewers games! The best was probably the Brewers v. Cubs game last weekend with my favorite cubs fans... even though we lost. I love my Brewers. I love Ryan Braun. I am SO freakin' excited they are in the playoffs!

* dealt with tons of craziness at school. But, I love it, and each day it is getting better. My kids are challenging, but fun and cute. My school is great, even if a bit stressful. My coworkers are wonderful people. It is such a good place to be. I just love it! I have lots of funny stories of bodily fluids, funny words, and sassiness. All good things!

* gotten engagement pics taken by Dan and Brooke, with Tim at Grant Park. It was very windy at the beach, but the park was awesome and we got lots of fun pics!

* taken Tim on nighttime surprise picnic, which was romantic (even if a bit rushed to avoid the creepers).

* helped with recruitment and watched lots of AXDs get lots of new members! It is AWESOME! And I love my position as an Area Facilitator! It is so fun. I know lots of people don't get it, but volunteering for AXD is one of the most fun things ever!

* started babysitting for E. He is fun and cute and very imaginative, even when he gets a bit crabby because of his math homework.

The next month brings NKOTB!, homecoming, Halloween Parties, Playtime in Madison, and hopefully some wedding loveliness.

I will try to post a bit more... really! :)

Sneak Peek!

2008-09-30T19:56:00.005-05:00

This is a sneak peek of our photo shoot with Dan

First Day of School...Again!

2008-09-01T21:03:00.003-05:00

Tomorrow is the first day of school.

I think it is about my 25th, if my math serves me correctly! :)

I am VERY nervous. Mostly because I don't know my kids yet, and normally that is fine, but they are all so different and will need such different things.

So what will we do? Sing some songs. Read some stories. Bubble paint. Play outside. That sounds like a great first day to me! :)

I will say that although I am quite nervous, I am also VERY excited!

I love my new school. Other than the fact that I don't have a classroom to myself. It is a great school. They implement love and logic as their core discipline. They push all kids to think as if they are gifted, and our school is moving towards incorporating the International Baccalaureate Program. It is a very diverse school with a very diverse staff. Everyone has been very nice, so far. I've learned to be assertive on my kids' behalf, and that is respected. THat feels good... people expressing their opinions, discussing things openly and not being judged about it!

I hope it is a great year. I really want to develop my program into a great program :)

Besides school, summer is over. This is very, very sad. And then I think of next summer, and my stomach does flips and flops... because I will be getting married! This concept stills rattles my brain a bit. Over the past few weeks, there has been some small wedding productivity. I got our cake topper, a part of what I need for our favors, a piece of the bridesmaid gifts and ring bearer/ flower girl gifts, ideas for invitations, and, oh yeah... I bought my dress!!!!!! :) I'm very very very excited for November to get here!!! Then I get to try on MY dress! This is highly exciting!!!!!

My mom, aunt and Jodi came with me for the dress trying on extravaganza. It was lots of fun. Jodi and I became a great team of getting in and out of dresses! I love putting on big poofy skirts and sparkly things. I could try on those dresses all day long!!!!! It was quite lovely! Major thanks goes out to Jodi for helping solve the dress fiasco we encountered and spending some extra time with me figuring out what to do. I'm SOOOO excited for the dress!!!!

Tim and I went to the Dells for a mini vacay a few weeks ago, and it was AWESOME! We stayed at a small hotel, went minigolfing (where Tim proceeded to severely bruise his foot so I had to play nurse), spent the day at Noah's Ark (America's largest waterpark with America's largest water coaster), ate at the Pizza Pub and Paul Bunyan, bought fudge, and even had our fortunes told by Zoltar. (Just like in Big!) It was awesome... I am so excited for many more adventures with Tim!!!

Other than that, not a whole lot going on, there has been lots of relaxing and going out, and having fun the past few weeks, and I am SO not ready to go back to school. But, there is lots of good stuff going on this fall, so hopefully it will all be worthwhile.

Peach out, homies.

melsie

Today is the day they come home.

2008-08-23T17:51:00.003-05:00

I know that it is going to be harder than you could ever imagine.
I know how much I am hurting, and cannot even begin to imagine how much you are hurting.
Find comfort in those who love you and who love Dean.
We are all here for each other, however we can be.
I'm not sure what will happen next or how the homecoming will impact us....
I just know that it is more real than ever, and thus more painful.

But, maybe, we can start to heal, slowly, and steadily, with setbacks, and successes, and somehow together figure out how to live our lives as Dean would want us to, making him a part of it in our own ways...

***Welcome home, men of the USMC 2/24 Fox Co. We're glad you are home safely.

Yet, we still miss our fallen heroes each and every day.

Always loved and NEVER fogotten- Corporal Richard Nelson and Lance Corporal Dean OpickaRIP- 4/14/2008

4 months too many....

2008-08-14T09:16:00.003-05:00

It has been four months since we received the news that Lance Corporal Dean D. Opicka was killed in action while serving our country in the United States Marine Corps in Operation Iraqi Freedom.

We still miss him every day.

It still doesn't quite feel real.

In a little over a week, his brothers from the Fox Company will be returning home to their families. Cpl Nelson, and LCpl Opicka came home early.... way too early.

Why did this happen? What plan is it a part of? How will we continue to make it through our days, our special moments, our hard times, without Dean?

Missing him so much.

Today.

And

Every day.

Freedom isn't free, never was.

Semper Fi

Summer Vacay, and the living is easy....

2008-08-12T22:50:00.002-05:00

It's SUMMER! (I know dear readers, that really it is mid-August, and school is just around the corner, but cut me some slack!)

I Love Summer Vacation because:

-I have time to get stuff done.

-Tim and I have a chance to run away for a 3days2nights.

-I can stay up late and not worry about functioning the next day.

-I have time to do wedding stuff.

-I get to enjoy the warmth and sunshine!

-I have time to dream and plan for the craziness that is bound to be my school year!

Today, I went to my new school. I got to meet Monica, the other special ed teacher I will be sharing a room with. She is super nice and wonderful! I can't wait to work with her... Sadly, I have to wait until 10/23 because she is having a baby (like any day now) and will be out on maternity leave. However, I am excited to be at my new school. It is a great school, and my program just needs some work to become a great program. The biggest obstacle we are facing is a space issue. Here is the low down: Our room is about 16' x 30" (Think the AXD suite at Carroll for those who are familiar with that.) Now, put in that room- 2 teachers, 4 assistants, 1 nurse, 10 K-3 students and 12 3-5th grade students. That is a whole lotta people in not a whole lotta space! YIKES! I'm confident we will make things work, because really, what other choice do we have. BUT, it sure will be challenging!

I am VERY thankful to Brooke for providing me with some help and expertise tomorrow as we try to figure some things out to make this okay program in a great school, a great program in a great school. (Thanks, Brooke- I LOVE YOU!)

Now that camp is over, I have delved into a wee bit of wedding planning. Here is what we have accomplished this week:

* Purchased a cute cake topper.

* Found a great photographer at a great price.

* Ordered one piece of our favors.

* Got some key questions answered from the Reception Hall.

* Made Dress shopping appointments (yes, this FREAKS me out!)

I feel pretty good about this mini list, and am hoping to get some more things done before school!

Today, I got to watch the Olympics and the amazing Michael Phelps! And I even did some laundry. It was very accomplishing feeling.

I am ready to enjoy my next 2 weeks of mini freedom (mini since i have a LOT to do for school.) Included in these two weeks are: a 3day2night trip with Tim, wedding dress shopping, BBQing, Brewers Game- (where we MUST tailgate!), classroom setting upping, and getting life ready for school!

And with those lists, I will leave you loyal readers...

I'm off to sleep so I can be super productive and on the ball tomorrow!

Happy Summer Sleeping Weather!

First day of summer vacay

2008-08-11T18:44:00.002-05:00

Today is my first true day of summer vacay.

It has been quite accomplishment filled. Here is what I did today:

* Emailed the reception hall with a few key questions

* Typed up the CPW Staff Evals for my meeting with Jennifer

* Went to said meeting with Jennifer, and carved out my niche

* Got the oil changed on the Scion

* Picked up pictures from Walgreen's so I can continue to scrapbook

* Set up two appointments to look at wedding dresses (EEK!)

* Planned a mini vacay with my lovely, Tim.

* Had a meeting with an old friend to pass of AXD stuff

* Opened a checking account at ECU

* looked at wedding dresses online and tagged my favorites

* started to look at wedding stuff in the sale on The Knot

Tonight's agenda includes room cleaning, scrapping?, and list making.

May the productivity continue!!!

I'm super excited because tomorrow I get to go to my new school and learn about my kiddos! I can't wait!

I'm also super happy to have had some Jenny time this weekend with the Brewers' Game and sleepover. It was quite needed, and very lovely.

Last week was my last week at CPW. I got some lovely cards from the campers, and loved every last moment. (Even if I got a bit crabby on Friday.) Everything is packed up and cleaned up, and all done. It's bittersweet, but I am definitely thankful for that last summer!

Alright, I'm off to be productive.... there is lots to do before the mini vacay to the Dells!

Srappy Doo

2008-08-05T00:04:00.002-05:00

Scrappy Doo!

Tonight was Scrap Night in Illinois. Here is what I learned:

1) Illinois and Wisconsin are too far away.

2) I love my Illinois gals.

3) Scrappin' is fun, even if it is a bit overwhelming!

4) April- Late June of 2008= big blurry mess....

5) I'm glad I keep my planner updated!

6) There is nothing like ice cream and brownies :)

7) I have some very crafty friends.

8) I think I may be a budding crafty person.

I also came to the realization that I only have 2 weeks between camp and school. This does NOT make me happy, but I WILL make the most of it! :)

and with that, this tired, anxious gal is going to bed....

Nighty, night!

Summer time...

2008-08-03T09:20:00.002-05:00

Summertime, and the living is easy...

Well, not really. It's been one heck of a crazy summer!!! Thus, I have neglected the good ol' blog! :(

So what has been going on...

The end of the school year came and went without any major issues. I took the boys to Grant Park for a field trip which was awesome. Two of my lovelies got suspended for the last day of school, which pissed me off, because I wanted to see them. My 8th graders almost got left out of graduation. I am going to miss my kiddos a lot, but not the school. I think the Social Worker is the person I will probably miss the most, but on the last day, I turned in my keys, walked out the door, and that was it.

I am back at camp, thanks to being asked 2 weeks before it started. I am glad to have had one more summer. I love camp. I love our campers. I love our families. There has been some major yuckiness from one certain situation, but I have learned to pretty much ignore that. My staff is overall pretty good, so that helps. And we have had a pretty good summer with no major incidents (Yet.... we do have one week left so I don't want to jinx it!) So, as of Friday, I'm done. Who knows what will happen next?

Tim and I had the pleasure of going to three weddings in four weeks. That is a whole lot of wedding. First was Brooke and Dan- and everything was perfect and lovely and amazing. Just as they deserved their day to be. Brooke will tell you the chair ties should have been ivory and the head table pink... but it looked lovely, and no one else noticed :) Brooke was a gorgeous bride. We all had an absolute blast at the wedding and events. The following weekend was Jenny and John's wedding. Once again another gorgeous event. It was an outdoor wedding, and the weather totally cooperated. It was just beautiful, and super fun! Plus, Tim, Ryan, Angela and I got to see fireworks after the rehearsal dinner, and that was super awesome too! The last wedding was Sara and Nick's it was quite gorgeous and formal. The best part was their reception was at Joey Buona's so we were totally scoping out ideas for our reception next year.

There have also been a few concerts thrown in there this summer. Tim and I had amazing seats to Rascal Flatts with Taylor Swift at Summerfest. It was an AWESOME SHOW! We were in row 20 of the center section. It was amazing! And, Brooke and I went to see our boyfriend Phil Vassar at Washington County Fair. It was another amazing show, by our man Phil. Sadly, we think the dorky yet cut fiddler might have been replaced. :(

And there have been lots of Brewers Games! Our boys are doing pretty well- minus those stupid Cubs! :( We love our Crew, and the games, and the friends we end up sitting by. Good times. Also, don't forget the Swedish Fish and Peanut Butter M&Ms for the perfect outing to the ballpark. We also made our lifelong dream come true of getting on the jumbotron!

Last weekend, I got to go to St. Louis, and spend the whole weekend in a gorgeous hotel, for Alpha Xi Delta Leadership Traning. It was totally wonderful and amazing. I am SO excited to be serving as an Area Facilitator (And NO I dont' get paid!) But, it will be a fun, new and challenging spot, and I can't wait!

So with August, comes 1 week of camp, some tutoring, hopefully some time in the Dells with Tim, a BBQ for Tim and I, getting ready for school, a girls' night, some Brewers Games, Shawn's 40th bday, and then summer is over. :(

I promise I will try to keep this up a bit more....

Schinker, out

One month.

2008-05-14T21:41:00.003-05:00

One month ago, the world stopped turning.

It feels like a lifetime, yet it feels like moments ago.

It still doesn't feel real.

I don't think it will ever be real...

I have cried more than I have ever thought possible in this past month.

Yet, I have also had such immeasurable joy. Why do we receive such things at the same time? My heart is just torn into two pieces. I think the "good" stuff (new jobs, weddings, etc) was sent here to somehow make the loss of the other part of me bearable... but it still isn't.

***

I miss you. A lot. We all do. Please know we can't stop thinking about you. Life keeps going, yet I can't imagine how. I wish you were here to share all of this with. I wish you were here to help me make sense of this.

A piece of me will always be with you.

I love you more than you will ever know.

You will ALWAYS be loved, and NEVER forgotten.

Semper Fi.

***

Engaged!

2008-05-04T14:38:00.003-05:00

Did you feel that?

The world stopped turning for a second yesterday, approximately 4:30 p.m. CST.

Wanna know why?

Timothy Robert Reed asked ME, yes ME, to be his bride! :)

I said yes.

I couldn't be happier and am still in just utter shock that this is real.

He proposed on the lake front at the pier by his house. With a blustery wind blowing and a few fishermen looking on, Tim got down on one knee and asked "Will you marry me?" After jumping back 5 feet or so and jumping up and down I said "Yes! Of Course!"

And proceeded to curse him all the way back to his place for lying to me for the past 6 weeks!

We were all needing some good news. Here it is.

I am getting married to my perfect man! I cannot be more excited!

More details will be forthcoming, but alas, I am not allowed to do any wedding thinking/dreaming/planning until my homework is DONE! (Now, how about THAT for motivation?)

Life is truly a roller coaster. I never knew one could be SO incredibly happy, yet so sad all at once. Somehow this is part of that greater plan that I am not meant to understand.

Thanks for the kind thoughts, prayers and well wishes. I am truly blessed with some amazing people in my life.

All my love,

The Future Mrs. Timothy Reed

2008-04-19T18:27:00.002-05:00

I came by today to see you

Oh I had to let you know

If I knew the last time that I held you was the last time

I'd have never let you go

Oh it's kept me awake nights wondering

Lying in the dark asking why

I've always been told you won't be called home

Until it's your time

I guess heaven was needing a hero

Somebody just like you

Brave enough to stand up for what you believe

And follow it through

When I try to make it make sense in my head

The only conclusion I come to

Is that heaven was needing a hero like you

Oh you held your head up proud

I laughed inside when I saw how you were

Standing out in the crowd

You're such a part of who I am

And now that part will just be void

No matter how much I need you now

Heaven needed you more

Cause heaven was needing a hero

Somebody just like you

Brave enough to stand up for what you believe

And follow it through

When I try to make it make sense in my head

The only conclusion I come to

Is that heaven was needing a hero

Just like you

Heaven was needing a hero

That's you

-Jo Dee Messina, Heaven was Needing A Hero

*****

On Monday, April 14, 2008, Lance Corporal Dean D. Opicka entered eternity with his heavenly father while serving his country in Iraq. This past week has been a week of sadness, remembering, and honoring a great man who was a dear friend to many, a beloved family member, a stellar teacher, a loving fiance, and much more. We will continue to honor, t0 mourn, to comfort, and to treasure Dean, his fiance- Katy, his family, his friends and all who knew him

Thank you to those who have sent prayers and thoughts.

Dean, we will miss you, and will continue to love you more and more with every day, memory, tear....

You will never be forgotten.

All my love,

mel

Happy Happy Happy

2008-03-31T20:40:00.004-05:00

Happy, Happy, Happy!

That is how I would describe life right now. Things are just super great!

First off, I got these...

Yes, they would be my first ever pair of hand knit socks from the one and only Jenny Hansen! She is the bestest knitter I know. And these socks are the bestest socks I have every worn! I love them!!!!! They are made with Socks that Rock Yarn, but I can't remember the color. I just call them FANTASTIC! And they are super duper t

oasty! I LOVE THEM! I cannot wait to learn how to knit socks of my very own someday. (First, I have to finish my scarf.... it is almost done, but I just haven't had the chance to wrap that project up!) My wish is to someday be half the knitter that Jenny is!

Second I got these.... Yes, those would be my 7th bouquet of flowers from Tim. He buys me flowers so much that the ladies at Pick n Save all talk about him and who the lucky girl is who gets those flowers! (It's ME!) I love the flowers. I love the boy. Things are fantastic!

I don't think I aligned things correctly, so I apologize to my

readers for any visual discomfort!

Funny story:

Last week when I was driving home from Tim's, there was a car following me really closely. Finally, it pulled up along side of me. I was on the phone with Tim and the guys in this car started trying to give me their number using hand signs. It was quite ridiculous.

Exciting story:

The Brewers beat the Cubs today in the Season Opener!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sandbox news:

Last weekend, I got to talk to Dean online, which was amazing. And today, I got a letter from him which was super amazing. I cannot wait for him to be home.

Getting Wac'd:

Joe is my personal trainer. He is also training Brooke and Katy. It is freaking awesome! I have never worked out like this before, and it is the greatest feeling ever! I cannot wait to keep at it and see the results. It is awesome. We have been working out at the WAC (Wisconsin Athletic Club) and we love it there!

Running class has also started up again, and we are so glad to be back in Marty's care. His jokes are still just as lame, but still funny. And Brooke and I still have a few Pilates classes left, too.

So, eventually, I will be a sexy son of a gun. :)

Tim Time:

Tim is amazing. He loves me even when I am a bit nuts, and can make me laugh no matter what. He spoils me with flowers, and dinners, and easter baskets. And he is fitting right in with all of my friends, which is SO important to me. I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with him!!!!!

60 years:

My dad celebrated his 60th birthday last week Friday. The ENTIRE family (Mom, Dad, Adam, Eric and his fiancee Michelle, Tim and myself) went to dinner at The Wells Street Tavern. It was great food, great company and just tons of fun. My mom even got the huge table of kids and parents to sing happy birthday to my dad as we were leaving- it was super cute! But, now that my dad did turn 60, it means my 29+1 birthday is up next! :)

Speaking of Birthdays:

We went to Illinois yesterday to celebrate Alex's birthday at Buca di Beppo- one of the greatest restaurants EVER! It was a fun night with friends, food, and fun. And despite being a smidge crabby, it was a wonderful evening!

Alas, there are a few snippets on life. I'm happy, busy, loved, and blessed. Life is VERY good.

YAY!

Wowza

2008-03-16T14:22:00.002-05:00

I am in love with 4 day work weeks and 3 day weekends!

After a not so great day on Thursday at school, (Let's just say MAJOR meltdown by one of my boys. :( ) it has turned into a FANTASTIC weekend! (minus the bit of productivity I SHOULD be doing... but have been slacking on!)

Thursday Katy B and I grabbed dinner at The Chancery and stayed for karaoke. The motto was "Drink Early, Drink Often." By the end of the night, my stress was lifted! :) My brother came and joined us for a drink, and we even got to see JOE! It was a super nice night!!!

Friday, I went to school to work on an IEP, then headed to Rose Glen for lunch and seeing my little ones. D. and J. were in the 5th grade Wax Museum, so I came on the right day! (The 5th graders research someone famous, dress up as them, then when you push their button, they recite their speech. It is SUPER cool!) D and J did a GREAT job! They were very cute! And it was lovely to see everyone, as usual! (I know I am a bit of a loser, because it was my day off, and I spent it at a school, but it was just what I needed!)

After a naparoni, I went to dinner with my parentals. It was nice to chat and catch up. The best part was when my mom asked "So, are you and Tim going to move in together before you are married?" Before I could even respond, my dad jumped in with "Absolutely NOT!" It was quite funny. (And in case you were wondering, we were are not planning on this at all. ) from dinner, I headed to Tim's for board games, and instead, I got...

A Moonlit Walk on the Beach! Seriously. He lives a block away from Lake Michigan. It was brisk out, and the sky was clear and it was super romantic. I am excited for it to get nicer out and to spend more time down by the lake with Tim. I then proceeded to kick his booty at Monopoly and we played some mad games of Scrabble, too.

On Saturday, it was time for Gina's Baby Shower!!!! YAY for BABIES! It was a fun afternoon with my Illinois lovelies talking about life, boys and babies. :) I love those women, and am glad there are lots of opportunities to see them!! And by the way, Gina may or may not be one of the cutest pregnant ladies ever! She is just all smiles and so lovely. :)

From Illinois, I headed to Tim's via a stop at the Outlet Mall. Tim and I went for a BLUSTERY walk by the lake, then headed to Potawatami for the Buffet and some slots. The food was very good, and Tim got lucky at the slots. (I lost... :( ) We ended the night with some Scrabble, and tried to figure out Yahtzee, but I couldn't figure out the scoring (So if you know how to play Yahtzee, I would appreciate a tutorial!)

Today is supposed to be a day of productivity... I'm procrastinating a bit. But I did get the chance to talk to 2 of my favorite boys (Tim and Scott) and got a message from Dean. (Lucky me!)

Alright, only 4 days until Spring Break! WOOHOO!

Think spring!

Update on my Fabulous Life!

2008-03-09T13:08:00.002-05:00

Life has been pretty busy, but also incredibly good!!!

Things with Tim are just amazing. Last night we went to Illinois to celebrate Ryan's birthday at Bill's Pub and then to Zanie's for a comedian. It was a wonderful night! The best part was watching everyone interact with Tim and just have fun at dinner. It is kind of weird, because here is this guy that I want to spend the rest of my life with, but how is he going to fit in with all the people who I love so deeply? Last night was quite reassuring. (Thanks to everyone for helping to make it that way.) I knew dinner went well when Tim hugged the girls goodbye. It was very sweet.

As each week goes by, things get better and better, and my confidence in the fact that he is the "one" grows and grows. I NEVER thought this would happen to me. So, still have a bit of disbelief, but it really is fantastic!

School is going okay. It was a bit of a tough week with people judging my kids and a few major meltdowns. The best part is we have 8 days with kids until spring break. The bad part is I have 2 IEPs between now and then, the book fair, parent conferences, and have to decide where to apply and attend informational meetings for next school year in MPS. (And keep looking for jobs outside of the district too.)

There is tons going on right now, and that is okay... I'm still a bit run down with this cold, and am anxiously awaiting spring! (and spring break- let's be honest!) I'm ready for SUNSHINE, and spending time outside, and running with Brooke and Katy and the girls, and all of the fun and weddings, and other exciting things this summer.

Life is good, really good. I am one lucky lady.

Lots of Love!

2008-02-21T13:28:00.002-06:00

Isn't it lovely?

There is lots of love in this neck of the woods!

Musical Lovin'
Last night, Brooke and I went to Potawatomi to see Phil Vassar. Let me just say, he is AMAZING in concert! He is so incredibly talented (not to mention HOT!) And all of his songs make you want to sing along, and have such great stories about love and life. If you ever get the chance to go see him, do it! He is just wonderful!

That Hallmark Holiday
I was lucky enough to get to celebrate Valentine's Day with my valentine this year. It was amazing. Tim took me out to dinner at South Woods for amazing food (and company.) Then we headed back to his place for a little gift exchanging. I got beautiful flowers- again! A very soft and squishy bear, and of course chocolate! The best part was the card he picked out- it was just perfect. It was such an unforgettable evening! (And super special because we finally uttered the 'L' word!)

I used to hate Valentine's Day... but it is a whole lot of fun to share with that special someone.

Polar Plungin'
This weekend I am FINALLY Polar Plunging it for Special Olympics. I love the cause (had to keep the theme going!) And LOVE everyone who has helped me raise $744 so far! My ultimate goal is to raise $1000.... I'm hoping I can squeak that out in the next few days! (go to my aim profile or facebook page for the link to donate on line!)

Love the Brewers!
Four very foxy ladies have purchased our 9 packs for the Brewers 2008 season! We love the Brew Crew and summer and tailgating! It should be great!

I LOVE MY MACBOOK!
Why? because I can iChat with Scott. this is very fun. I can even distort the image and add backgrounds to make our video chat more interesting! I love my computer so much I sleep with it. (It lives on the corner of my bed so I can charge it... dont' worry my bed is big!) If you are not part of the Apple nation- you should be. It is SO MUCH better than any PC I have EVER owned!

In short, life is GREAT. I am getting sick, I think. (I am jumping in the water regardless!) School is okay- despite some crazy children. Tim is fantastic. Brooke and Katy are amazing friends. Dean is far away building sandcastles. Life is good.

Until next time!

It's hard to believe...

2008-02-03T20:50:00.000-06:00

It is hard to believe everything that has been going on lately.

First off, my Uncle Gary passed away this past week. It was not expected and very sad. I do not do well with hospitals, or dying, or funerals. However, I have some amazing people in my life who are amazing supports. I am extremely lucky. Thankfully, Gary went peacefully, and everyone got to say their goodbyes. I'm glad I went to visit before he left us, I definitely struggled with this decision, but glad I went.

On to not so sad news...

Last week we celebrated Brooke's birthday at the Chancery. It was really fun, as always! Despite the very snowy weather, Tim came out and got to meet everyone. I am so glad he did, and I am even more glad that everyone approves! :) It was really fun having him out, different, but really good. We celebrated with Miller Lite, ice cream cake, and lots of karaoke. Afterwards Brooke enjoyed a grilled cheese, and Shawn and Kyle came by for a visit. It was a very, very late night, but I'm pretty sure Brooke had a great time! Funniest part of the night was when Brooke and Tim realized that they knew each other from WASC camp in 1994, seriously, what are the chances!?!?!

Friday, I bought a new computer- I love my MacBook. LOVE IT! I am very happy- and will no longer have problems posting to my blog as Safari and Blogger get along just fine! And I am very excited to get rid of my 19" gigantic monitor and pc that freezes and dies all the time!

Alright, I think that is about it, for now. I will post more frequently... now that I need a reason to use my lovely little computer a bit more!

Oooh! The Giants just BEAT The Patriots! Life is really good!!!!!!!!!!

later gators!

Life is Grand!

2008-01-24T14:52:00.000-06:00

Life is Grand. Very busy, but super grand.

Last weekend, I had a super fun sleepover with Brooke and Katy. We talked about girly stuff, stayed up late, watched a movie, and just hung out. Good times. We spent Saturday together by first visiting Nathan's birthday party at Chuck E Cheese. Let me just say it is WAY cooler now then it was when I was little! It was fun to see all of the little ones from Rose Glen, (and Joy and Jeanne and Kristie too!) After the bday party, we headed to a bridal show downtown. We sat in a few limos, got our pictures taken in a photo booth, and ate a lot of food. It was really fun!

Saturday night was super good, too. Dinner and bowling with Tim. Did you know you need a reservation to bowl in South Milwaukee? It's true! (who would have thunk it?) The best part? the fact that I FINALLY won a game of bowling. My record is now 1-8. :)

Sunday I slept in, met America's lotion needs and watched the game at Katy's house. The game was pathetic, and I just don't want to talk about it!

Monday brought a visit to Rose Glen, which is always nice, and Pilates with Brooke. Tuesday Brooke and I took a semiprivate pilates class and got to use all kinds of machines... it was really fun. I am really enjoying going to pilates, and am becoming addicted to our little studio. This could become an expensive habit.

Classes started yesterday, and I am not excited. Good news? It is my LAST semester!!! YAY!

Tonight start's Marquette's recruitment, and I am very excited... even if it means a VERY busy weekend, and not a lot of time to see the people I want!

Alright, that's all I got.

Later gators!

YAY!

2008-01-13T18:34:00.000-06:00

It's time for an update:

School is going well! My boys actually worked quitetly and were on task for 60 minutes! This is a miracle! I get a new student tomorrow, so we will see how that goes. Last week I got elbowed in the lip, that was fun, but not as painful as when I lost my balance when a student ran past me and I fell to the ground. Friday we had a staff social, which was a great time, as always! I love the people I work with. It was a really good time.

Saturday I got to see the lovely AXDs from Eastern Wisconsin at Chat. It was soo good to see everyone. I've said it before and I will say it again.. I LOVE MY SISTERS! I am so lucky to be an Alpha Xi! I cannot wait for Marquette's recruitment! and all other AXD ness coming this semester.

Which includes doing the polar plunge for Special Olympics with the Oshkosh women! I cannot wait, and I really hope I can reach my goal of raising $1000 dollars, I am just about halfway there. (Check out my aim profile for the link to donate, or email me and I can send it your way!)

Life is going pretty well.

My scarf is inches away from completion. ;)

Last week at the chancery there was some crazy text messaging that continued a bit on Friday. Whatever.

Saturday I saw The Bucket List, and it was a PHENOMONAL movie. Really, really good, like go see it. Now.

And, I may or may not have gotten a dozen roses this week.

Tonight my mom made homemade lasagna that was fantastic.

So yeah, life is going pretty well.

I cannot wait for next weekend: sleepovers with the girls, a birthday part for Nathan at Chuck E Cheese, a bridal show, a night out, running in single digits at the zoo, and meeting America's lotion needs. And if time, I will be picking up a beautiful new MacBook: ;)

Alright, time to head home and do a bit of school work.

Peace out,
mel

2008-01-07T15:57:00.000-06:00

Today is very springlike.
I wish it would stay like this.

Today my kids were pretty fantastic. (After just yesterday, telling Jenny that we never have a day with no fits or tantrums, today we did!) So, my newest addition has yet to show up to class yet... Hopefully tomorrow! And tomorrow, I have an IEP for another new student, whom I've been waiting for, so we will be up to 7 lovelies soon. :)

This weekend was pretty good, despite feeling pretty crummy! Thursday, I went out and ate at the Chancery with Shawn, and got to sing a bit, drink a bit and relax. Friday, I went to dinner with Brooke and Jodi, and it was amazing- even with the lack of smashed cauliflower. It is so nice to spend time with them and to catch up with them! Saturday I met America's lotion needs, napped, then ventured to Red Robin and went bowling. It was a fun night. And Sunday brought about a poker party in Illinois which was fabulous. Spending an afternoon with good people is good fun, even if I lost early. I was able to add quite a few rows to my scarf which is nearing completion!

And now, it is time for me to meet America's lotion needs yet again.

Until next time...

The Way I Am

2008-01-03T15:36:00.000-06:00

The Way I Am- Ingrid Michaelson

If you were falling, then I would catch you.
You need a light, I'd find a match.

Cuz I love the way you say good morning.
And you take me the way I am.

If you are chilly, here take my sweater.
Your head is aching, I'll make it better.

Cuz I love the way you call me baby.
And you take me the way I am.

I'd buy you Rogaine when you start losing all your hair.
Sew on patches to all you tear.

Cuz I love you more than I could ever promise.
And you take me the way I am.
You take me the way I am.
You take me the way I am.

***
I may or may not be totally in love with this song! It totally reminds me of the song in The Wedding Singer. I love it because it is real, simple, and from a woman's point of view. And really, the whole CD is just as fabulous!

Year in Review 2007

2007-12-30T20:13:00.000-06:00

The Year in Review: 2007
(It's a tradition... I've got to do it!)

1. What did you do in 2007 that you'd never done before?
Let’s see… I am teaching in special ed. I saw my first “bid yell.” I built a dresser. I went on a blind date. I ate my first Philly Cheesesteak Sandwich, (and enjoyed other lovely things in Philly.) I learned how to knit. I took a running class. I ran on the field at Miller Park. I went to a midnight showing of Harry Potter, because I just couldn’t wait. I successfully completed a corn maze. I made a batch of soup from scratch.

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions and will you make more for next year?
I did okay at the resolutions this year. Next year, I will make them again, and who knows what will happen J

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Yes! Ms. Reghan Rose Watke joined us last May! She is super, duper cute!

4. Did anyone close to you die?
Thankfully, no. But, several of my very good friends lost some pretty important people this year.

5. What states/countries did you visit?
Minnesota, Illinois, and Pennsylvania this year.

6. What would you like to have in 2008 that you lacked in 2007?
I think for this year, I would like to carve out a bit more me time, and a stronger ability to say NO when I need to.

7. What date from 2007 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
September 4 was my first day of school, and it started a pretty unforgettable year!

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
I would have to say getting into the UWM program, and teaching in MPS without totally stressing out or wanting to quit (at least not yet!)

9. What was your biggest regret of the year?
Not making more time to run and workout during my week. Not knowing it was my last summer at camp!

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Well, no strep throat this year!!! But, I did have a horrible cold this summer, and what we believe to have been shigellosis a few weeks ago (read that as: violent stomach pains, intestinal issues, and not being able to eat anything for several days). And no real injuries, other than a few bruises and scratches.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
I love my new bedding I got this fall. Other key purchases that stick out- plane tickets, my dresser, new water filters for our PUR pitcher, butterscotch krimpets, and my wet to straight flat iron.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
All the men who proposed to my lucky friends! (Yes, there have been three, count that, three, engagements this year!)

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
My former boss.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Bills, clothes, school

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Engagements for Brooke, Jenny, Katy and Dean; get away trips; new jobs; possibilities

16. What song will always remind you of 2007? “Irreplaceable”- Beyonce; “Soulja Boy”; “Online”- Brad Paisley; “Umbrella”- Rhianna

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
i. happier or sadder? Happier!
ii. thinner or fatter? thinner
iii. richer or poorer? richer

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?
Working out and running; and getting to spend time with my friends.

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?
Worrying, working, wondering

20. How will you be spending Christmas?
Christmas Eve at my Aunt’s and Day with the parents, then doing some camp stuff and working at the apartment.

22. Did you fall in love in 2007?
Nope, just wonderings, discoveries, and possibilities

23. How many one-night stands?
None!

24. What was your favorite TV program?
Grey’s Anatomy, Curb Your Enthusiasm; Private Practice; The Bachelor; Brothers and Sisters; Clean House; Iron Chef, What Not To Wear, Top Chef, Just about anything on The Food Network

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
There is one person whom I pretty much cannot stand, and last year I could at least tolerate…

26. What was the best book you read?
Harry Potter 7 was the most anticipated and not a disappointment! The Pact was also incredibly good!

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?
I fell in love with Taylor Swift this year. She is great!

28. What did you want and get?
My ears pierced and a full time teaching job!

29. What was your favorite film of this year?
Well, I only saw a handful in the theaters… Harry Potter 5 was EXCELLENT! and probably my favorite!

30. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 29! (For real!) The night before we celebrated at the Chancery, or course! On my birthday I took Rachael on her zoo field trip, got lots of flowers and presents at school, and worked at the ARCh auction.

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Winning the lottery? I’m really not sure, this year was pretty good.

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2007?
Pretty much, dark jeans, solid tops, and jewelry. My school fashion concept includes tennis shoes as an essential part of my attire.

33. What kept you sane?
My good friends, going out for karaoke, and remembering that TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY!

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
I love John Cusack. I love Patrick Dempsey. Enough said.

35. What political issue stirred you the most?
I am most bothered by the situation in Iraq, and worried about the coming elections.

36. Who did you miss?
My friends when I don’t get to see them enough!! (especially Dean while he is off being a Marine.)

37. Who was the best new person you met?
I met some fantastic people this year through friends, school, sorority, and such. I couldn’t pick just one.

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2007:
It does not pay to wonder and worry, accept what it is, appreciate it, and move on.

39. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
"I ain’t settlin for just getting by, I've had enough so so for the rest of my life. Tired of shooting too low, so raise the bar high, I ain’t settlin’’”

Merry Christmas!

2007-12-25T10:40:00.001-06:00

'Tis the Season to be Jolly!

Merry Christmas, Everyone! I just love the holiday season! Mostly because it gives us a reason to spend time with people we love. It is a good time of year!

The best Christmas present of the year? My new crockpot! It is red, and lovely! I might just have to make something in it for Thursday's party.

Things here are going well. Winter Break has begun, and I am VERY glad! It is jam packed with things to do, but hopefully lots of fun, and some relaxation mixed in.

School wise- I'm preparing for 2 new students, and a new para, and the loss of our AP, and the expulsion of a student. Lots to do over break, but hopefully I will be able to squeak in a few hours at school to get things ready!

ARCh wise- my time as camp director is almost over. :( And, I don't really want to talk about it.

Roommate wise- Dean is home!!! We got to grab lunch yesterday, and I let him beat me at bowling, and we hung out and wrapped his presents. It was a good day. I will be glad when he is home for good! I am very excited to hang out with some good friends on Wednesday. I am also VERY excited for the Warm Up Event and Going Away Party on Thursday! It will be lots of fun!!!!

BBW wise- I love working there. It is therapeutic. So, after the holidays, I will continue to work 1-2 days a week. I'm excited.

Life wise- The year is almost over. So much has changed this year. New jobs, and schools, and friends, and experiences. Things happening you never thought would happen. Trying to figure out the great puzzles of life. All the while, it seems like everyone is growing up, getting married, having babies. It is exciting stuff, all this change... yet sometimes, it makes you just want to go back to being a kid.

Knitting wise- My scarf is progressing nicely. I got some quality knitting time in yesterday. I can wrap it around my neck. :) I am quite pleased with my progress.

Alrighty, folks, I think that is all for today.

Enjoy your holiday, and come back soon for yet another installment of The Year in Review! :) I know you cannot wait!

Love,
me

Sad and Happy and Tired and Confused

2007-12-12T15:53:00.000-06:00

I heard the saddest news today. My PHENOMONAL Assistant Princial, who is AMAZING with my students will only be with us until Winter Break. This seriously breaks my heart. A whole lot! He was so good with all of my boys. I am not sure how long I will last without his support for my room!

Today my students were all a bit off (thanks to a VERY long weekend which I enjoyed, but sets them totally off kilter). The day ended with a complete meltdown, and a call to outside help. It makes me so sad when I see a student act how he did. I wish there was more I could do to help.

Happy news- there are only 7 days of school left before WINTER BREAK! (Not that I am excited at all or anything!)

Yesterday was a snow day. I loved it. I slept in, knit, watched movies, knit, hung out, and went grocery shopping. It was phenomonal. The best part was my last class of the semester was canceled too, and we only have to email in some of our work, and not do the huge project we were going to do in class.

Tomorrow is the Christmas Social. I am VERY excited!

Saturday is Christmas in Illinois, and I am very excited for that too!

Things here are good. Dean will be home soon, and I cannot wait to see him. The holidays are fast approaching, and I love the holidays. My Christmas cards have gone out. My Scarf is about 14 inches long, and progressing quite nicely since I figured out why I kept ending up with extra stitches.

Things have been busy, but good, so I am happy with that! :)

Stay warm everyone, and ENJOY THE SNOW!!!

2007-11-23T20:17:00.000-06:00

I love long weekends.

I love sleeping in until late, lounging about, then spending the afternoon with friends.

The best part of the afternoon? learning how to knit with Jenny. She is a terrific teacher. She even brought me some Ice Cream Parlor yarn, and a knitting necessity kit. She patiently fixed some mistakes as I began my Ice Cream Parlor scarf. She is terrific. It was a lovely, lazy afternoon of Pumpkin Spice Lattes and good friends (JC came and joined us too), and chatting away. It was terrific. I'm excited for future knitty-goodness.

Tonight I have been fairly productive by cleaning the apartment a bit, knitting by Tree Light, drinking some fermentation, working on Christmas Cards, and just being cozy. Not much could make this night better...

Alright, I'm off to continue my cards, beer and knitting.

Enjoy the weekend, one and all.

Thankfulness.

2007-11-22T17:23:00.000-06:00

I am so full of thankfulness, on this day meant for the giving of thanks that starts off our holiday season.

I am thankful for my job and the security it provides, the incredible patiences it teaches me, the experiences given that I will never forget, and the ability to make a difference in the life of my students and the whole community.

I am thankful for my family and the love that comes along with it. It is true that there is no place like home for the holidays, no matter how far away you roam...

I am thankful for my friends near and far and everything I have learned from them, advice given, experiences shared, memories made, laughter and tears. I am very blessed to have some phenomonal people in my life.

I am thankful for my health.

I am thankful for my sisters and am so lucky to have made friends of my sisters from all over.

I am thankful for the rights, liberties and conveniences I enjoy.

I am thankful for a car that is paid off.

I am thankful for the 10-1 Packers.

I am thankful for Pumpkin Spice Lattes.

I am thankful for the four pumpkin pies my aunt made, so that I may take an entire pie home for my personal enjoyment. ( I really do love all things pumpkin!)

I am thankful for my life.

It has been a good year. I am excited to enjoy the end of it in full holiday splendor. Today my Christmas tree went up. I'm going back to the apartment to decorate it. I cannot wait. I am looking forward to next year and what it will bring with milestone birthdays and weddings of dear friends, and a summer full of new opportunities.

I hope everyone had a terrific day of thanks. I'm off to wrap up celebrations with the family, and enjoy a night at the apartment.

Take care.

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

2007-11-18T15:47:00.000-06:00

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

I am so excited that Thanksgiving is Thursday! I LOVE THANKSGIVING! And for some reason and very excited about the holidays this year! I bought my Christmas Cards yesterday, and today, I picked out the perfect little tree for the apartment, with Sabrina's help!

Christmas music, snow, and holiday cheer are good for the spirit! I'm excited.

Friday, I took a much needed day to recharge, and spent my day at Rose Glen. It was just what I needed. I gathered resources, worked with kids, and had some quality bathroom time. It serioulsy was just what I needed.

School is going okay. It has been VERY stressful, and I wish I could figure out how to keep a few of my children IN the classroom short of locking them in! My desk got destroyed last week, and I do not have any place to put things where my kids cannot get ahold of them. I need to work on that! I also have 2 new students which definitely make things more interesting! I have some new ideas, and am glad this is a 3day week, and so will next week as I am going to the stated EBD conference, then a 4 day week thanks to an inservice and it will almost be the holidays! I just have to take it one day at a time.

Other than that, life is okay. I got new bedding for my room, which I LOVE. And all of my laundry is done which I also love. Hopefully, between homework and school work, I can finish off my room' cleanliness. That would be grand.

Alright, I'm back to work on stuff.

Happy Thanksgiving, one and all.

Stay warm!

Tough.

2007-11-09T15:03:00.000-06:00

I once thought I was pretty tough, and had a decent amount of patience.
This week, that has been tested A LOT.

That 'testing' along with lots going on at school, outside of school and in life in general has left me feeling a bit stressed, and doubtful.

So, I am searching for something to recharge my battery, to reinspire me, and to help me remember that I do really love what I do.

Last night was a good start to this, getting to hang out with our regular Chancery gang, and dancing, singing and letting loose a bit.

The next few weeks are nuts, just nuts. Thankfully there are only 4 weeks of classes left at UWM, and the holidays approaching... so hopefully there will be some recharging time for me.

Alright, I'm off to start my busy weekend...

have a good one, one and all.

Excited and busy

2007-11-04T19:56:00.000-06:00

I am very excited today, for the following reasons:

1) The Packers WON! It was a good game, and now Brett Favre, aka the greatest qb of all time, has joined the ranks of the 3 QBs in the NFL who have beaten EVERY team. :)

2) I built a dresser. Okay, it isn't perfect, but I think I did a fairly decent job.

3) My apartment is pretty clean, thanks to a bit of help from mom. My room still needs some work, but this is very exciting.

4) I got new bedding! Next on my list... a new mattress!!!

Alas, the next few weeks are going to be VERY busy! I have something every day until 11/14. But, by then it will be almost Thanksgiving, and that will be a MUCH needed break!

Alright, I'm off to work on lesson plans, and monitoring conferences and lots of other stuff... Let's see how productive this night can be!

Thoughts on the Brain

2007-10-30T16:41:00.000-05:00

It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar

and seemingly secure, to embrace the new.

But there is no real security

in what is no longer meaningful.

There is more security

in the adventurous and exciting,

for in movement there is life,

and in change there is power.

-Alan Cohen

If you do not subscribe to The Ripples Project you should. Now. A weekly dose of inspiration is sometimes all you need to spur you on. The above quote was from this week's ripple about winds of change. I LOVE the part about "there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful." and "in movement there is life, and in change there is power." This is good stuff. And for me, totally applicable to a lot of aspects in my life.

I feel like there have been A LOT of changes for me recently, and by recently I mean the past few years or so. (And, yes that is recently, since as you get older you have more time in your life to break into reference points.) I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. (See previous post) Learning to embrace change, has been HUGE for me. It makes life good.

What hinders my embracing is this tiny little voice inside my head that sometimes questions and makes me doubt, and makes things hard....

Today was a bit of a tough day. Days like this make me doubt and wonder.

Alas, I must remember, TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY. (and thankfully, I will be at an inservice, and half my class is suspended.)

Onto other things...
Last weekend was the Halloween Party of the Year... Good times, as always.

I jumped in the largest leaf pile of my life at camp last Thursday. I LOVE FALL.

I love my campers, and sadly told a few families I would not be back next summer...

Thursday, I get to go to lunch with ANGELA!

Sunday, I got to chat with Dean on the PHONE instead of just via facebook.

I have learned how to make the greatest turkey sandwich of all time.

Sunday, I was Betty Crocker and made my own soup- from scratch. I know... I'm wicked awesome!

It is ALMOST Thanksgiving, and I cannot wait for the long weekend, good food, and relaxing with family and friends!

Then soon after that is CHRISTMAS!

Is it just me or is time FLYING by recently????

Alright, time to sneak in a workout prior to heading to Marquette...

Later peeps!

Torn...

2007-10-26T12:14:00.001-05:00

I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Truly. As much as we may or may not like something at the time it is occuring, or cannot understand the greater plan at work, everything always seems to work out some how- making us stronger, more caring, more patient, more us.

There have been times in my life when I have not understood why things are happening, or have not been happy about what was going on, or have had multiple options and opportunities for me to choose from. Sometimes, this has made me feel hopeless, or confused, or full of ideas and wonderings.

Here is what I know, now, about where I am headed.

I love being in education. The collaboration, working with kids, working with adults, letting people (small and big) know that they are capable, and important, and cared about. This is the most rewarding job ever.

I am sad that my time as a camp director is nearing it's end. I love that job, too. But, I know (at least think I know) that I am not meant to do that forever. I just hope that whatever the future brings will allow me to be able to still be involved with something I care about so much. I hope that I will not be forced to walk away in hurt, anger and disappointment.

However, I think the changes occuring in my life (professionally and personally), are opening up some new opportunities for me. There are some exciting possibilities for next summer, doing things I never would have dreamed of, making a difference in ways I have always wanted to, but did not have the opportunity to do so.

I am excited about what my future life will bring.

But, sometimes, I am impatient and cannot wait for what is in store. I am terrible with surprises, I want to KNOW, NOW, the who? what? where? when? But, I know that I can't.

So, I'm here. Being patient. Living the best life I can, now, with what I have. I will remember my past fondly- the good and the bad, but will not dwell or linger in it. I will be here, now, patiently waiting for what is to come.

Sweet Philly o' mine!

2007-10-22T15:32:00.000-05:00

Sweet Philly o'mine! (Bah, bah, bah) Good times never seemed so good....

Bad pun? probably :)

Last weekend was my first ever trip to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, the birthplace of our nation. It was an excellent break from the craziness back home. And of course, is well documented with silliness.

Crazy Plane Rides.
I was scheduled to leave on Thursday, and despite the Tornado Warning, the skies were clear and we were boarded on time. Then, they decided to reroute us around some weather. So, we had to go back and get more fuel, and FINALLY after sitting on the runway for 90 minutes, we took off! The delay and the extra time on our new route made for a 4 hour plane ride. No fun. But, I did get to see some AMAZING lightening, even if it was a bit too close to my plane for comfort. The flight was fine, other than the fact that there was a crazy lady in front of me. She was giving herself a manicure of sorts. Then, she had brought along TONS of reading material. It was the most disorganized mess I have ever seen- pages of magazines ripped out, torn newspapers etc. And to top it all off, as she finished each page, she crumpled it up and shoved it into the seat pack in front of her. When it came time for the flight attendant to pick up the garbage as we were finally landing, I swear it took at LEAST 10 minutes to collect all of her trash. People are strange.

Once we landed safely, I was treated to the door to door service of Scott's Taxi Service. The rest of the night was spent talking about school, camp, jobs, religion and other interesting topics while enjoying the slightly obstructed view of the Philly skyline on Scott's roof. Rooftop Decks are AMAZING. Everyone should have one. Finally, it was VERY late, and we went to bed.

I only came for the crack.
Friday was Scott's Birthday! (He is now oooold, so oooooold, very ooooooooold.) We enjoyed a delicious lunch at Gigi of salads with fruit and shoestring french fries. We spent our afternoon exploring the many historical sites in Philly. First stop- The Liberty Bell. It is a bell, with a crack. The museum part of it is very nicely designed, and a bit repetitive- you know there was this bell with a crack and they tried to fix it and it used to ring and stuff. You can only read so much about the bell with a crack that they tried to fix and used to ring and stuff. But, still cool to see.

Next, we acquired some tickets to Independence Hall, and while waiting, were off to find Betsy Ross' House (and more importantly her next door neighbor- the Real World Philly House!) Betsy can make a perfect 5 pointed star. She married 3 times. And is quite skilled at making mullet balls, in addition to her mad sewing skills. We saw Ben Franklin's grave, and left a penny behind, as a penny saved is a penny earned. We also saw a very large bust of Ben, and decided he was a giant. Who knew? At Independence Hall, we enjoyed the square, even if the leaves attacked. Inside, we were led by a wonderfully witty tour guide who informed us that if the "Olive Branch" written by the Continental Congress had worked, we would have been sitting in "Olive Branch Hall" and that just doesn't have the same ring to it. After all of this patriotic sightseeing, we headed back to the house to begin the birthday celebrations.

PBR Me, ASAP!
Who knew that I would have to travel all the way to Philly to enjoy the greatness that is Pabst Blue Ribbon? After enjoying a few at the house (with some birthday shots, of course, ) we headed to the local shrine to PBR- Bob and Barbara's Lounge- The home of the $3 special. The $3 special is the greatest deal in lounge history. You get a can of PBR and a shot of whiskey. Good times. And, this place has EVERY SINGLE PIECE OF PBR PARAPHERNALIA EVER! And, yes that needed to be in all caps, because I am not even joking!

As the night progressed, more of Scott's friends joined us for the celebration. I don't quite remember everything that happened but know that I was yelling at two of the guys a bit and hitting them (which apparently they found funny :) ), debating that Say Anything IS the greatest movie of all time and singing Journey while we were walking to dinner. We ate dinner at Misconduct, where I met a very nice lady in the bathroom. She was there every time I was. She was very nice, and gave me some lovely advice. The night ended with a downpour, and escaping to the CGL director's place for some Wii and continued birthday celebrations. Due to our lack of ability to procure a cab successfully, we finally got back to Scott's at some ridiculously early time of day.

College Game Day.
Once I'm up, I'm pretty much up, so while Scott slept off his birthday celebration effects, I half slept and chilled in the living room, when I was joined by Scott's roommate, Jason. Jason is one of the nicest people I have ever met. An excellent host. However, he did make me succumb to watching College Game Day on ESPN and learn more about college football than I every really could care to know. But, it was an enjoyable lazy Saturday morning/ early afternoon.

Yo! Adrian!
Once we finally got going on Saturday, we ventured out into the city to see art museum. We did not go inside. We went purely to run up the steps just like Sylvester Stallone in Rocky. This was very fun. The best part was watching people's faces as they pretended that they too, were Rocky Balboa. Smiles of pure joy on their faces. It was priceless. Other highlights of the museum include: the 3 year old in the rocky costume running up the steps; the 12 Red Bull Cars giving out free Red Bull, with Red Bull Girls having a dance party on the steps of the museum; riding on bronze animals; getting our picture taken with Rocky. It was fun.

We strolled through the city, stopping at many fountains and parks and enjoying the people and the gorgeous weather. It was a fantastic afternoon.

Krimpets, Camp and other things Pennsylvanian
Saturday afternoon, I got my very own tour of CGL. It made me jealous of the truly traditional camp experience and made me think a lot about how much I LOVE CAMP. It was so quiet and beautiful out there. We even watched the stars slowly come out into the sky. It was awesome. After Camp, we went to a local establishment... and I cannot remember the name! The food was good, the beer was good, the service was not so good. As we stopped for gas on the way home, I went into the Exxon to find Butterscotch Krimpets, the tasty treat featured in Jerry Spinnelli's Maniac Magee. This is the book that won over my boys at the beginning of the year, and once we discovered Krimpets were real, I knew I had to find them when I came to Pennsylvannia. The workers thought I was a bit crazy at first purchasing a whole box of these frosted cake goodness (think little debbie-ish snacks). But, we ended up having a lovely chat about it. (Sadly, I only had one student at school today so they have not been tasted yet, but hopefully tomorrow our Krimpet Tasting will occur.) This may or may not have been the highlight of my trip. :)

Frieda Fried's Fantastic Foot-tour of Philly
My last day in Philly was spent on a guided tour featuring Jason (aka- Frieda Fried). Jason is such a good tour guide, he is going to publish a book with fun tidbits and such in it. It will sell millions, and I will get a cut. So, off the three of us ventured to find cheesesteaks, and constitutional stuff. We walked through many neighborhoods, including Italian Market- which made me feel like I was in a Food Network Special. (You can also buy frozen rabbit for $2.69/lb) We ended up at Ishkabible's for the Infamous Philly Cheesesteak. I ate mine with green peppers, onions and of course- The Whiz. Yes, The Whiz is Cheese Whiz. Something I do not think I have ever eaten in my life, nor truly desired to do so. However, my Philly Cheesesteak experience can be described with just one word- PHENOMENAL. They are so incredibly good. Meat, cheese, in a gooey goodness on a delicious roll. What more could you ask for? Enjoying it with friends on a gorgeous, sunny day in Phillly? Yes. Yes, please.

Once our tummies were full from lunch, we cruised through Ben Franklin's former abode, and then were off to the Constitutional Center. This place may or may not be one of the greatest museums of all time. It is incredibly interactive and so informative. It also helps when you have a lawyer who deals in constitutional law there to help you process and learn. We made laws, Scott got sworn in as president, pretended we were the jury, sat in on a Supreme Court Case, met the signers of the constitution (in full size bronze statues) and signed the constitution. It was AWESOME. And we even enjoyed a really cool exhibit on the First Ladies. Did you know that the First Lady can be any female selected by the President to be his hostess at the White House? There are quite a few First Ladies that were NOT wives! And, did you know Nancy Reagan helped put out the "Just Say No!" Board game. (We thought it would be great to find a copy and turn it into a party game).

After the Constitutional Center we walked through the most architecturally beautiful Macy's I've ever seen. And enjoyed some yummy ice cream at some ice cream parlor I cannot remember the name of (but loved their pumpkin pie ice cream concoction.) Finally, it was time to return back to the house, and check in for my flight.

My last hour in Philly was spent as my first hour- on the roof.

Sadly, I had to go home. The flight home was fine, no crazy people, no delays, piece of cake.

And now, It's back to reality.

YAY!

2007-10-18T11:18:00.001-05:00

Today is Friday for me, and I couldn't be more excited for the weekend. Yesterday was a ROUGH one at school, as a result half of my class (i.e. 2 boys) were suspended for today, and another is home sick... so yes, I have ONE student. It's nice! We are working and getting things done, but are having some free time, too. Things go so much faster with just 1 on 1!

Life has been so crazy busy! Last weekend included a lot of homework, the ARCh Stroll n Roll, slating at Marquette, helping the Freunds move, and a meeting Sunday night. There just seems to be SO MUCH going on! I like being busy... but also get major anxiety of it, too.

This weekend is my trip to Philly to visit Scott and celebrate his birthday. I am excited for wine, beer, cheesesteaks, bells with cracks and a much needed break! It is going to be fantastic!!

However, next weekend is THE halloween party. I do not have a costume. I do not have a lot of time... so ANY ideas are appreciated!

Thanks in advance for your help!

Whoa!

2007-10-10T19:39:00.001-05:00

It has been a ridiculously long time since my last update due to the following reasons: a) i've been SWAMPED 2) Life is busy! and d) My home computer has firefox and blogger and firefox don't get along.

Here is an update:
Summer ended. This was sad. It was my last summer at CPW and I didn't even know it. That made me a bit upset, but I'm getting more okay with that. Sadly, school and it's accompanying craziness started up immediately following CPW.

School. I LOVE being a special ed teacher!!! I have a self contained EBD room. Currently, I have 4 boys grades 5-8. (I've had as few as 2 and as many as 5... we'll see where we end up!) They are sassy, and a challenge, but I LOVE IT. (Monday was a particularly challenging day, and I wasn't loving it then, but THANKFULLY teaching special ed- specifically EBD- EVERYDAY is a NEW day!) Today was a great day in our room.

I like my school. It is only 3 years old, so pretty nice, and the staff is pretty good too. So far, so good. Where will I be next year? We'll see. I don't mind my room, but do miss the little ones and having time to work on academics and not behaviors all day long! ;)

Classes. They are what they are- a means to an end. Lots of busy work, but not too bad. Just time consuming!

Roommates. Dean is in CA for training before being shipped off to Iraq in January. This makes me sad.

AXD. I love my sisters- ALL of them. (See my note in facebook about it) I am done advising in Oshkosh and miss them TERRIBLY! But, am getting to know my Marquette women, and according to one I'm the 'bomb-diggity'. So I guess that is a good thing!

Travel. Next week I get to go to Philly to experience beer and rooftops, cracked bells, cheesesteaks and other such loveliness while visiting a good friend. I am SO excited for the much needed break.

Corn and Fall and Stuff. Last weekend was the Corn Maze in Illinois. Katy B tagged along, and we (along with Alex and Dan) successfullly found ALL 24 checkpoints! (and have the certificate to prove it!) Soon is the Annual Halloween Party. I do not have a costume idea yet... this may pose a problem! I can't wait for leaves to turn colors.

Overall, things are good. I will try to update more often.. but we'll see if firefox and blogger can make up!

Hope all are well.

Schinker,
out.

Too fast!

2007-08-14T18:02:00.000-05:00

Too fast!

That is how summer sped by me this year!!! There are 13 weekdays left until school starts, and I have inservices on 7 of those. Fair? I think not! But, I am anxious to get started. (and for all of you even THINKING of asking WHERE I am at... don't bother! They haven't finalized placements yet! UGH! If I had $10 for everytime I was asked, I wouldn't need to teach!)

Anyway...

Camp has ended. Mostly good. There were some personality issues at the end, people just getting tired, but overall, really really good. A bit of drama the last week or so with a crazy lie filled situation, but nothing that we didn't handle. I was a counselor the last overnight, and other than one of my boys bothering the others, and my air mattress deflating, and not being able to sleep due to thinking about everything to do for next year... it was fine. :) Luckily, I got to go to all camp swim thursday and friday... that is my favoritest thing ever!

Other than that, not a whole lot is new on my end. I was sick last weekend, but that seemed to pass. And things are fine, just waiting for fall to come, as much as I want a taste of summer vacation!

Congratulations are in order for my best friend BROOKE on her ENGAGEMENT!!!! I know have 2 weddings on the docket for next summer, and I couldn't be happier!!! :) I know Brooke and Dan will be VERY happy :)!!!

You know, I thought I should update cuz I had stuff to say... but I don't. Sorry for the boring post! So, I'll be off for some hanging about the apartment time.

later kids. I'll try to have something more exciting for next time!

Too Long.

2007-07-31T19:11:00.000-05:00

Too Long.

It has been a month- so much has happened! Summer is just FLYING by!!!!!!!

July in a nutshell: camp, school, running, being sick, reading and watching Harry Potter, AXD, western night, stressing out.

Camp is going well. It is really hard to believe we just have 8 days left!!!!! I'm not really ready for it to be over. But am excited for a bit of summer vacay before school starts up!

My UWM class is almost over. And it was pretty much not worth my time... other than getting my feet wet, but oh well! I'm excited for my fall behavior class, that should be fun! BIPs and FBAs woohoo! I am anxiously awaiting my placement for fall, I'm told any day now. I cannot WAIT to find out where I will be!!!!

I have a nasty chesty cold thing that might be ready to finally leave my lungs. That would be good. Mucinex is my friend. You know I am sick when I fall asleep at camp twice in one day!

I went to a midnight showing of HP with Jesse. Good stuff!! Sadly, lots of good details were missing from the book, but the action rocked! HP 7 was FANTASTIC!!!! I could not have asked for more!

The SHRC had a fun race chasing weiners at the Brewers' Sausage 5k. Best part? Running through Miller Park, like on the field and stuff! AWESOME! Brooke and I have also started doing the Badgerland Striders Fun-Runs. I got lost my first time and did an extra mile or so. Last week, we all made a wrong turn and ran an extra .5 or so. Hopefully, this week we get it right! It is a good time to run with others. Plus, they always have beer afterwards. We haven't drank any yet, but I think this week might be the week!

Tosa Chancery had a western night a few weeks ago. Brooke and I won the contest for our AMAZING cowgirl attire! We were the cutest things EVER!!! It was a lot of fun. Much more fun than the night I lost my purse when we decided to play volleyball at 2 a.m. and ended up in a not so good part of the city trying to find it, and got home after 5 in the morning or so.

I had a BLAST with my UWO girls at their summer retreat! They are amazing! Sadly, I will be leaving them as their advisor, as I will be working with Marquette in the fall!!!! I am really excited and SUPER nervous, but I know it will be a good experience. Gosh, for as much trouble as they caused me, I will really MISS those Oshvegas ladies!!!!!

Lastly,
Dean is being deployed. This sucks. Majorly.
I don't want to talk about it.

Alright, I have some homework to finish, and some relaxing to do.

Stay safe everyone! :)

What a wonderful Summer!

2007-07-01T13:36:00.000-05:00

I cannot believe it is July already! That is just insane in my head!!!!!

So much has been going on since I last posted!

Weddings!
My very dear friend Jenny Conway got engaged last week!!!! We are all so excited and happy for her! I am just thrilled to be in the wedding, as are the other bridesmaids. It is going to be great. Yesterday, we had a lovely day in the park in Illinois, and discovered it would be the perfect setting for the wedding- so hopefully everything will work out! I love weddings!

Sunshine!
There has been much sunshine. It is summer, I love it! We have had just great weather. Sure a few hotter days and a few chillier days, but overall really great. I'm hoping that this upcoming week of no camp will provide some fantastic outside time. (I'm trying to ignore that rain cloud hanging over the forecast on Wed and Thurs.

School.
I have started my classes at UWM. My summer one is a joke, but it is nice to get my feet wet and get back into the swing of things. It is just funny because I could do most of the assignments with my eyes closed! I am anxioulsy awaiting news of my placement so I can prepare myself for what the fall will bring. But, overall, I cannot wait to be in the classroom again! And, I am even more thrilled that it will be in Special Ed!!!!!!

Camp!!!
Camp is going great! I love my job! It has been really busy and hectic, but so far so good! Adult Res was full of GORGEOUS weather and Amazing campers! It was one of the best weeks ever!!! The highlight was all of the visitors that came to hang with us cool people stuck at camp. Also, M.K. and I had a great conversation about boys. It was pretty much the coolest thing ever. We survived the crazy week of adult day camp with 72 campers (getting ready for 75 in July!), and welcomed Shawn for another karaoke show. It was great as always! Last week was the first week of kids. They sure gave us a run for their money. Time outs, running away, accidents, etc... made for a fun filled week. I was very excited to get to see some of my favorites though! ;) I am anxious for Visitor's Night to be done with, cuz then I can sit back, relax and ENJOY the summer! The first weeks of camp are so hectic with getting stuff set up, getting staff in gear, our inspection, and Visitor's Night. The rest of the summer is cake compared to that.

Me.
Overall, I'm really, really good. No crazy summer stories to tell (at least not yet! :) ) I'm just anxious about the fall and getting some things straightened out. If I can just survive the summer, I will be good! One not so great situation resurfaced, but I think after this last time I'm done. For Real. At least I hope so.

The future is just full of so much promise and questions, and things I am wondering about. The month of May put a LOT of things into motion for me, things that will be coming with time, but the promise of those things is very exciting! So, while I am awaiting for things to come to full bloom, I am working on me, so that I can be the best possible in the various situations that are brewing. (i know, very vague...there is SO much more to say... if you want to know, ask).

Alright, I'm off to work out a bit, grocery shop, and enjoy the boy-free zone that is my apartment right now! (this so rarely happens!)

Happy Summer!

What a week!

2007-06-07T20:05:00.000-05:00

It is funny how just a week ago, I was getting ready for a night out with friends to celebrate my birthday. I feel like so much has happened since then.

Last weekend was CPW Staff Training, and it went pretty well, despite my extreme tiredness, and some missing copies. The staff is great, and will do a super job this summer! I'm really excited for camp to FINALLY start!

Today, I went to Madison with the 4th graders. It was lots of fun! D. and I had a great time, and I turned everything into a lifeskill lesson. I don't know how he felt about it, but we learned about crossing streets, paying for things, and more. Plus, we had the best tour guide ever for the capitol, she was great! AND, we got to go to the observatino deck, which I had never done, and it is super cool!

This last week at Rose Glen has been interesting. My favorite 3rd grader left his mark on me on Monday, and one of our firsties has been NAUGHTY all week. I had to go to the principal's office every day this week with naughty kids... I felt like a failure! Luckily, the principal acknowledged that we have difficult kids. I told her she wouldn't have to see me today (since I would be gone) and I would do my best to stay away on Friday too. :) Tomorrow is my last day at RG and I am sad about leaving! I will miss the kiddos a lot, and everyone I work with too. Kristie and I have decided we need webcams in our classrooms next year so we can communicate and check up on each other constantly. I think that is a grand plan.

Tonight is the last Thursday in Waukesha for the summer. It is strange to be saying that again! And I know Summer will FLY by!!!! Then next year will be crazy... I can just tell, but I'm really excited for all that is coming my way.

Overall, I've been good. Really good. A bit stressed and tired, but good. I have the most amazing friends ever, which help all the not so goodness melt away. My mind has been spinning a smidge with what ifs, and how comes and the like, but overall mostly undercontrol, which is good (considering the craziness - both good and bad- that has been occuring).

My motto: Everything happens for a reason. EVERYTHING. So sit back, relax, and ENJOY.

Alrighty, folks, I'm out.

Later.

The luckiest!

2007-06-01T07:07:00.001-05:00

I am the luckiest.

You might think YOU are, but seriously I AM THE LUCKIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD!

So, why am I the luckiest? because I have the GREATEST FRIENDS EVER! I mean seriously, I know the bestest people in the entire world, and for some insane reason they are friends with me, and the greatest friends I could EVER ask for!

Here's why:
1) I have friends who send me thoughtful MySpace/Facebook Comments, texts, emails, and IMs.

2) I have friends who are amazing hosts and provide for memorable weekends.

3) I have friends who listen to my vents, my rants, and my craziness, and love me anyways.

4) I have friends who get my freaking out over the silliest of things.

5) I have the MOST amazing BEST friend ever. There are not even enough words in the world to begin to describe her.... I am SO not worthy!

Last night, some close friends, and I celebrated my 29th birthday at The Chancery. It was laid back, and really fun. The best parts of the night were: my present from Brooke- it was an AMAZING scrapbook from A to Z! I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have already read it and stroked it's pages NUMEROUS times!!!!! Taking pictures of me with everyone who was out. :) Drinking crazy shots with my brother. Dean and my brother spilling their drinks in my hair (wait, that probably wasn't the best part of the night...) Drew Carey even got me a present.... so sweet! I had a blast singing, dancing, being with friends, climbing on the balcony, and all of that goodness.

Today. I get to go to the Zoo with Rach. I'm excited. (I'm a bit tired, but we will have fun!) Staff training is this weekend. It is supposed to rain.... I'm NOT excited about that, but we will have fun! :)

OOH, I got my hair cut yesterday, and my 'hair shirt' is no longer, but I LOVE THE HIGHLIGHTS, and Lindsey is amazing.

And, note: Pringles are a great 'morning after' breakfast ;)

Okay, kiddos, I'm off :)

HAPPY HAPPY JUNE!

I'm broken

2007-05-30T06:53:00.000-05:00

I'm broken.

No. Really! My left pinky and half of my left ring finger are all tingly like they are asleep. It is very strange.

Apparently, the consensus is that I pinched something of somesort. I've been like this since Sunday night.

I am not worried, yet.

Any advice on how to unpinch this thing that I have pinched?

Kristie told me that if it doesn't go away, at least I will have a permanent reminder of my Memorial Day Weekend. That's sweet and all, but, seriously?
:)

Anyway, life is good, other than being broken.

Only 8 days left of school, counting today- and I get to go to the Zoo on Friday (in the rain, with the 3rd graders) and next week get to spend a day in Madison with the 4th graders (really- just in case someone MIGHT have an accident) Plus lots of assemblies and parties and other such loveliness.

Lots to do today.

Tomorrow night is haircut time! (I'm excited- it's been 6 months!) This will be followed by the 3rd annual birthday celebration at the Chancery. :) (you should come, it will be fun. nothing crazy, i promise!)

Alright, I'm off to work before school, so I can get the camp t-shirts ordered! Yup, lots to do in just 11 days! Then CPW summer of craziness will begin!

Enjoy the Great Day Kids!

Melsy, out.

Long Long Time ago

2007-05-28T19:45:00.000-05:00

It has been a ridiculously long time since I have posted a significant update. I apologize to my readers, life has been REALLY busy. But good.

Here is a run down of some of the major events of the past 2 months that you might have missed out on.

Don't forget the sunscreen.
For the second year in a row, I spent my Memorial Day weekend in Minnesota. It was splendid. Completely relaxing, and rejuvenating. I now have the energy to propel into summer! This weekend was well documented, thanks to Scott (visit his facebook for a picture by picture summary of the weekend). After running a random errand for Scott, I arrived at the apartment ready for dinner and drinking. There was a wonderful meal- of course- with yummy wine, followed by delicious beer. The weekend was off to a good start. Saturday included a lovely walk around a beautiful lake (and apparently Josh Harnett's house... though i'm not sure which one it was). There were GIGANTIC fish in the lake, seriously, huge. It freaked me out. After a yummy Chipotle lunch, and some Curb your Enthusiasm, we met up with KP at the Walker Sculpture gardens. It was a sunny afternoon, and lots of fun places to explore. There were a gagillion weddings and such going on. We even saw some remnants of clothes that suggested some young lovers were frolicking inside one of the sculptures. Craziness. KP, Scott and I went to Town Hall for YUMMY beer. I drank plenty, we saw a Chuck E Cheese purse/ backpack, and laughed a lot. After chilling with KP and her doggie for a bit, we retruned back to the apartment for champagne and beer and The Big Lebowsky. (one of the strangest movies I've seen.) Sunday we ate lunch at Lord Fletchers' on Lake Minnetonka, and soaked up the sun. We did some chilling on the lake at some garden park thing (where there was another wedding.) It was gorgeous, and harmless, minus our encounter with a bee. (Scott doesn't believe in bee-acide.) The afternoon was spent soaking up TOO many rays on the balcony reading and relaxing with our iced coffees. Simply Divine. After another culinary masterpiece for dinner (which was not thwarted by the lack of propane), more beverages were consumed, and movies watched. A slow morning, and finally, a ride home. Lovely, I tell you, Just Lovely. note to self: next time I go to minnesota- don't forget the sunscreen! :) The soaking up the sun did catch up with me!

SHRCC
The Sexy Hot Runner Chic Club had it's first official 5k last weekend. It was GREAT! First off, we looked CUTE in our 'Puttin' the Run in Running' shirts and pink headbands. We all did well. I even beat my PR by 2:30!!! I was VERY excited! I'm excited to run and run and run this summer! It should be good!

London Weddings Come a Shore
Several weekends ago, Stephanie and Ush and their lovely London peeps came to the US to celebrate the wedding here. We started off our encounter by a well served night at karaoke, of course. I represented the US well in bomb races, winning 2-0. The wedding was LOVELY and LOTS of Fun. First off, the speaches from family and friends were sweet and hillarious! Then there was the most delicious food in the most abundant of quantities all night long. Lastly, there was hard core dancing. Brooke and I tore up the dance floor for hours. Stephanie was out there all night. Drinking, singing, dancing and laughing made it a perfect and true CELEBRATION! It was loads of fun.

Baby comes early.
Kristie had her baby early. Thus, I have been thrown in charge. Things are going well. Kristie and Baby are well. Baby is fun to hold! we are down to three weeks of school left, and it is bitter sweet as I will not be coming back to Rose Glen in the fall.

New Adventures.
I will be teaching special ed next year, and I could NOT be more excited! It will be hard to NOT be at Rose Glen. I will miss my kiddos, but I am So excited about fall!!!!!!

Other things.
We had our 2nd annual Karaoke contest, and even if there weren't as many willing volunteers we did well. I built tent platforms- used a nail gun and everything. It was sweet. Things for camp are picking up at crazy paces, and it should be a fun and interesting and BUSY summer! We have broken registration records, and it is freaking me out a bit, but I am REALLY excited.
I'm good. Life is good. I'm anxious for the next year and what it will bring. This relaxing weekend away provided a lot of thinking time, which was much needed, and exciting.

Alas, i'm off to hydrate and rest. and enjoy the last bit of this super weekend.

And I promise I will update more frequently!

***PS we are celebrating my Birthday on THURSDAY at the Chancery! It will be fun, so come on out to play***

Tag, You're It!

2007-05-21T17:44:00.000-05:00

I have not updated in a LONG time. But, I've been tagged, so here it goes.

Each person tagged gives 7 random facts about themselves. Those who are tagged need to write on their own blog those 7 facts as well as the rules of the game. You need to tag seven others and list their names on your blog. You have to leave those you plan on tagging a note in their comments so they know that they have been tagged and to read your blog.

1) My left foot is a half of a size bigger than my right foot. So, I usually wear an 11 or a 12 in shoes. (this also means my running shoes don't fit right, which means I need to visit the running store)

2) I hate olives. They totally freak me out.

3) I have bought my own school clothes since I was old enough to babysit in 4th grade.

4) I met Henry Winkler, aka: The FONZ. I even got his autograph. However, he had the worst smelling cologne ever.

5) I love asparagus. It is my favorite vegetable. And no, it doesn't make my pee smell.

6) I once co-hosted a pet show on PBS. I was supposed to just be a special guest showing off the coolest gifts for pets at Christmas, but the real co host was sick. So, I co hosted the whole thing, and even got to answer callers' questions.

7) I like to jump in puddles and get my pants all wet. (I've even been known to do it with the kids at recess... getting us both in trouble.) You should try it, it is super fun. (This ties to my love of all goodness outdoors- snowforts, sandcastles, hiking, tree climbing, mud, rain, etc. I love it all!)

Good Times

2007-03-31T23:51:00.000-05:00

Good Times.

That is what would describe tonight.

This afternoon was not the best, but tonight definitely made up for it!

First I went to the spaghetti dinner for Camp. I got to see some sisters, and several camp families came as well! Ella was super cute, Nathan snuck up on me, and I got to chat with a few others as well!

Then Scott, Joe, Carly and I went to the Chancery for drinks and basketball. Hooray for Saturday Happy Hour! and nice bartenders. We drank. It was fun! After a quick stop at Target for candy, we went to see Blades of Glory- Freaking' Hillarious! (and yes, I have seen it 2ce in as many days!)

Best parts of the night:
*shakers of shots at the chancery for no charge.
*"Can I cut off your skin and wear it to my next birthday?"
*"We put the bone in Zamboni."
*Reese's spilling all over the floor.
*Puddle jumping on the way to the car
*Joe throwing his shoe at my head.

It was nice to let loose tonight.

Tomorrow I have work to do, and a trip to Oshkosh. Hopefully, not too late.

Time for me to go to sleep. (gonna try to forget about the not so good things right now, and gonna focus on the happiness of today!)

March...

2007-03-31T15:08:00.000-05:00

It has been a LONG time since my last update. I'm sorry to anyone who actually still reads this thing to find out what I am doing! Life has been moving at full speed ahead, and lots has been going on.

School is going okay. Rachael will be back from China next week- hopefully she will come visit us at school- or I won't see her until after break. I miss her A LOT!!!! She has been showing up in my dreams- and I've been in China with her, so I think she misses me too. :) B. has been gone this past month as well, and gosh does that make school quiet. Without the two of them, I have time to work with EVERYONE else, which is a nice change of pace, but definitely different, that is for sure.

I've applied to two grad schools for fall for special ed. certification. I've heard from one, but waiting on the other. I hate having future plans in limbo, but hopefully soon it will all be worked out!

CPW stuff is going well! We have the money for our new swingset, which is exciting, and we also have a donation to buy a pedal boat for the quarry, this is HIGHLY exciting! Things are super hectic, but okay. We are at 80% of capacity for the summer, with new campers and such which is always fun. Staffing is slowly working out too. I love that I don't need to advertise, that people just come to us, it makes my job easier! (hiring is a crazy stressful thing, let me tell you!)

Life is mostly fine otherwise. Brooke, Katy and I just started a beginning running club through Badgerland Striders, we are all very excited! I'm pumped to get back into running and feeling good.

I had a blind date last night. It was enjoyable, not too terrifying, but not what I'm looking for. At least I got a good dinner, funny movie and some nice conversation out of it. Live and Learn, No regrets.

I had a Lia Sophia party a few weeks ago, and thanks to everyone there, I got lots of FREE jewelry, I'm excited to wear it all!

Spring Break is coming- and not fast enough! Brooke and I went nuts last year, and this year we have plans, just not so crazy! Last year the theme was: Tattooes, pedicures, karaoke music. This year we are planning, Piercings, manicures, karaoke music. And much less going out! (Last year we went out 7 of 9 days!) I'm excited for the time to work out, work on camp stuff, and have fun! Plus, I have 2 concerts in there as well- Snow Patrol with KTB and Phil Vassar with Brooke! I'm super excited!!!!! Only 4 more days of school. And yes, I hate everyone that either a) has spring break this week, or b) has thursday off too! :)

Alright, well, I think that is all... for now!

I will try to update more often, I promise.

Time to spaghetti, movie and drinks!

February Update

2007-02-21T07:36:00.000-06:00

This morning, I was awake at 6:45. This is a good 30 minutes before I usually crawl out of bed, at least! But, alas, it has provided me a productive morning.

I was meaning to update last night with all of the going ons of my brain, but alas, blogger wanted to update me to a new account, which really, just made me crabby. Luckily, I was distracted by IM chats with two of my very good friends.

Last night was the night for chatting with good friends, and that is always a splendid way to end your day. Really. I recommend it! Jenny and I got to chat for a bit last night, and it was lovely. I miss getting to see her often. But, luckily I got to see her last weekend for her birthday celebration at Big Bowl (one of the best restaurants ever!). Wisconsin needs a Big Bowl. Seriously. Anyplace where you can eat delicious food with chopsticks at a fairly reasonable price is a must! The best part of the celebration was just spending time with friends chatting and laughing. I ended up being the only or one of the only girls left at the table when people were building their stir fry's or visiting the bathroom. This posed some interesting conversations with the Illinois Boys. It was enjoyable! Lucky for me, I get to see most of them next weekend at the Poker Party... where I will WIN the jackpot! ($20 buy in for a night of fun... it will be great!)

I also got to chat with my favorite Minnesotan last night and the night prior as he ventured out to NYC. Sadly, he threw up before his interview... however, this did provide a hearty laugh, because really, who throws up because they are nervous?

Other news,
School is stressful- just lots of naughty kids lately, and not enough teachers willing to help put out the mini fires they set. (figuratively of course). But, next week Friday My dear Rach will be traveling to China for her stem cell treatment. I'm nervous! But really excited for any improvements it might bring her!!!! (She will be on Channel 12 2/22 at 5 and 10 telling her story.) Also, my little shadow B. will be leaving soon, I'm going to miss her like crazy, but will NOT miss the daily fits. Hopefully, she will be able to get some behaviors under control.

CPW stuff is in full swing, working on hiring the staff, marketing to families, and processing registrations. So far so good. I have to get working on our new swing set that we will be getting thanks to a generous contribution!! OOH, and the ARCh website is FINALLY working! and is actually DECENT! This is highly exciting!

Basically, life is good. BUSY, stressful, but good. I've been working on saying no more in a certain situation (and have been doing pretty good until last week), working out more regularly (which has been going good), and just being me. So far, so good.

Alright, I'm off to school. Lucky for me, today is FRIDAY! And my favorite naughty one has a doctor's appointment that will take most of the day!!!!! (not that I'm excited or anything!)

Have a good one kids!

Long time no update

2007-01-27T10:53:00.001-06:00

Long time no update.

What does that mean?

I've been busy. Really busy. I hate that word though because everyone uses it all the time! My days have been super full.

Things are going really well right now for me. I'm feeling pretty good. I've been pretty stressed with the amount of things I have on my plate, but hopefully some will come off soon! I'm working on that.

I've only been going out on Thrusdays, which is good, because I need the sleep! However, since I only go out once a week, I've been pretty well served all three times so far.... I need to work on that! :) We celebrated Brooke's Birthday this week, and had SO MUCH FUN! I have not laughed that hard in a LONG time!!! It was good to see everyone, Brooke loved her present, (thanks to all those who contributed!) I got to talk to some people I normally don't get too, and we had a sleepover. Good Times!

I'm trying to think if I have any good stories to tell...

last night I got to chat with a very very good friend who i do not get to chat with often enough. he asked if I was happy. here was my reply: "Yes, I'm happy. Now, dont' get me wrong, I've been busy as hell (working 90 hours a week in december... down to 60-70ish now plus some volunteer sorority stuff). My father has f***ed me over hard core, and things have been rough due to that. There may or may not have been a very stupid boy from the fall (too immature, but fun to play with) that caused some drama. But despite the craziness, I really am happy. I'm living such a better life than I ever have before, and I'm becoming a cooler and better person each day."

It just got me thinking that I have had a bit of stress the past few months or so... a few years ago, I would have been a total wreck. Now, I'm stressed, but able to handle it and continue to work on me. I'm proud of this. I will be cool, some day soon!

Yesterday the Youth Team came to my school. It was fun to see them, and introduce my kiddos to them. It was neat to hear the YT tell stories about the kids they met and such. It was a good day.

Alright, that is all. I'm off to bed! (sleeping on the floor in a cold office chaperoning a bunch of teens is NOT my idea of a good night's sleep.....)

love and gratitude to all of my loyal readers and friends.

melsy, out.

just once

2007-01-12T02:10:00.000-06:00

just once...

-i'd like to win.
-i'd like to be 'the one.'
-i want to be missed and loved and taken care of.

i'm tired of fighting it out

on

my

own.

things are getting better.

but sometimes...

life
is
just
hard.

2007-01-02T19:47:00.000-06:00

Fifteen minutes left to throw me together
For Mr. Right now, not Mr. Forever
Don’t know why I even try when I know how it ends
Lookin’ like another, “Maybe we can be friends.”
I’ve been leaving it up to fate
It’s my life so it’s mine to make

I ain’t settlin’
For just getting by
I’ve had enough so-so
For the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low
So raise the bar high
“Just enough,” ain’t enough this time
I ain’t settlin’ for anything less than everything

With some good red wine
And my brand new shoes
Gonna dance a blue streak around my living room
Take a chance on love, and try how it feels
With my heart wide open
Yeah, you know I will
Find what it means to be the girl
Who changed her mind
And changed the world

I ain’t settlin’
For just getting byI’ve had enough so-so
For the rest of my life
Tired of shooting too low
So raise the bar high
“Just enough,” ain’t enough this time
I ain’t settlin’

~settlin' by sugarland

New Year!

2007-01-01T13:02:00.000-06:00

Happy 2007 People! I hope everyone had a safe celebration of the new year. For me, last night was the perfect way to send off 2006 and to welcome 2007. I was able to spend time with some of my dear friends, hanging out, drinking a bit, and laughing a lot. It may or may not have been a really good time. (Thanks to Carly and Joe for hosting it up!)

This past week has been mostly terrific. I got to go out with Brooke, Katy B, and Dean on Wednesday, where we had plenty of fun laughing at the crazy rude people. We also may have napped on the bar during a ridiculously long karaoke song. Thursday night was a bit of prepartying, and quite a bit of partying out at the good old Chancery, with lots of camp peeps, and Lizzy Lo, which was splendid! We had a very good time. (Noted by the fact I'm not sure whose car I rode in home.) Friday night was the YT reunion, with lots of good friends, okay appetizers, and good memories. It was great to see everyone, and to reminisce on what has passed.

Mini camp was also squeezed in there, it went really well, minus the lack of snow, but we still had fun. M. initiated play. "Beep again please" is my new favorite line :) I walked a lot. And in general had a good time with everyong.

My brother Eric called me at an insane hour of the morning last night. Although he woke me up, he said some of the nicest things ever. I love him.

I had fun chatting and texting with Brooke last night too.

I must say, I'm excited to get this year started on a good note. December was a bit of a shaky month for me, but I'm ready for the new year. I've got some big plans.

With that, I'm off to be productive.

Many blessings for the new year.